

Peruvian and Dominican. While both have many similarities they also have many differences in many aspects. The way people are raised; their values and overall culture is different.
My mom is Dominican and being born and raised in the Dominican Republic has shaped me. The education in the Dominican Republic is very low. To be more specific only 4% of the government’s money goes towards public education. This being the case and the fact that my family from my mom’s side is not very successful due to the lack of education impacted me. I felt pressure indirectly into becoming someone better, surpassing that and demonstrating that we could break that as a family.
In my dad’s side, the case was different. They had all been pretty successful and they had expectations to me, which brought pressure on me in a different way. I felt I had to do a good job and excel in school and become great in life to not let my Peruvian family. My Peruvian family had expectations of me, which surpassed that of my Dominican family, not only in an academic way but also in a cultural way.
Whenever I went to visit my grandma in Peru they had always complained how I had to be like my aunt who would iron her dad’s clothes by the age of nine and cook by the age of twelve. That seemed a little tough on me because that is not like the Dominican culture, at least those values, are not kept anymore. My Peruvian family knew this and because of it, they looked down on me and me becoming a failure because I would fail to meet all their expectation solely based on where my mom and I were from.
Both circumstances pushed me to become a better person and succeed, not only academically, but also as a person. I am proud to say that I was able to achieve that. I became the first person from my mom’s side to come to the States for college and although that was not something new for my Peruvian family, it still managed to meet their expectations academic wise. I also dedicated myself to becoming independent. I learned how to manage my time on my own and decide when I had to complete certain tasks or chores. Aside from that, I learned how to cook many Peruvian plates, do laundry, clean the house; all expectations my Peruvian family had for me.
I am thankful because due to this I have turned out to be dedicated and passionate about achieving my goals. I am consistently ambitious on how to achieve more instead of being okay with where I am.
As a college student, I hope to continue being the ambitious person that I have been, by trying to achieve all my goals and not let obstacles get in the way. Sometimes it is hard to stay dedicated and motivated about what we want to achieve, and that is certainly true for me, too. Regardless, I have hope and I know that I am capable of it as long as I keep in mind my priorities and what I want to achieve in life in the long run.