This is the start to a self-discovery journey in the matter of leadership. The goal is to discern our leadership style and find out how it can be enhanced at a personal and hopefully professional level.
I believe that leadership is first of all a trait and that each and every one of us is born with. We learn to master and expand the context with time by developing and reinventing ourselves along the way. But, create the right situation and a leader will emerge and rise to the occasion. So, leadership is first innate and situational. But, what is leadership?
Bennis tells us that regardless how painful a situation is, a leader is never broken but uses the situation for self-transformation and grows stronger and open to more experiences. Leaders are visionaries who can persuade others to share their vision and make it a reality; they have emotional intelligence which gives them a distinctive voice, a strong sense of morality. Their integrity make them believable and trustworthy and, adaptive capacity will allow them to respond quickly and intelligently to whatever situation is thrown at them.
An authentic leader is a complete person who has character, possesses empathy, heart and courage. It is a package that more than one can aspire to. Different situation make different leaders. Being a leader means being able to make a difference. That is why I believe that one doesn’t have to be in a professional or political position to be a leader. Each and every one of us has the opportunity to become a leader starting in the basic cell: our home, into our community, our work environment whatever our position. You can grow from there , expand the context in order to be able to add more content, more substance.
It appears that leadership is M.I.A in our world. Our society has become full of wandering sheeps in quest of shepherds. And we know what can happen when the first is missing the latter. A quick look around painfully evidenced by the media shows that the corporate and political world is crooked. Unfortunately, several of the people in prominent positions and most of the ones who present themselves as leaders only think about themselves and how they can benefit from human stupidity. Most forgot about the greater good nowadays. Unfortunately it is the “me, myself and I” era. Such a sad situation! What can we do about it? Actually, can we really do something except trying to be the best we can and try to rise to the occasion and be true to ourselves while trying not to forget that there is another human next to us?
We need authentic leaders to live peacefully together, leaders who can guide us and help us not self destruct. The usual basic guides such as religion, morality, respect of others, integrity and the likes are pushed aside a little further every day. To me, these things are like compasses and serve as reminders of what we should and should not do. They don’t have to be followed to the dot, but they should still be thought and instilled into the minds of future generations for them to grow with a little more adequate baggage. Maybe more leaders could emerge. Unfortunately, our society has decided that we are better off and without these compasses, without great leaders, what kind of future will be offered and passed on to the next generation?
