What Made Me Who I Am: Kijung Ivy Park
Hard-working student. That is me. My special studying habit started when I was in Seoul, Korea. As many people know, education system in Korea is very hard to survive. As a 7thgrader, I went to school, private academy, and even to the night-time studying room to stay as a top student until 2:00 A.M. “TIRED!” So I was really happy when my parents told me that we are moving to America. I just wanted to escape from this harsh reality and start everything again.
But I faced a new obstacle- English. I was pretty confident with English since I went to what so called “English-specialized” middle school in Korea. My grammar and vocabulary was acceptable but the problem was speaking. Few days after I arrived in U.S, I called pizza place to order a pizza pie. I could not speak like I wanted. “Hello? Hello?” The man angrily responded and I was just mumbling words. He hung up and called my aunt whose number was connected to the address. The man said never make a joking call again. This experience was so disgraceful. It left a scar on my confidence so I decided that something needs to change.
That was the day when I started my special studying plan. I made two versions of school notebook-one in English and one in Korean. I translated what I learned in every class into Korean to understand and study better. Since I did not fully understand the test materials, I memorized everything word to word. I repeated over and over again even during the meal time until I become perfect. Fortunately, the result was satisfying. I passed ESL in one year. I never gave up and all my efforts paid up at the end.
After these years of hard core studying, I decided to become involved in Bayside High School Korean Club. For two years, I performed Korean Fan Dance on Korean Lunar New Year Festival in my high school. Our club members put much effort to every performance and I felt so empowered on the stage. Luckily, I became background decoration team leader and later vice president and finally senior officer. Being a part of Korean club and class gave me many new opportunities. I entered numerous Korean Essay Writing contest and won many of them. I also had a chance to volunteer at Korea Taekwondo which is a Korean martial art. Four years in Korean club helped me to keep my language skill strong and set my identity.
Move on to some personal sides of me, I enjoy reading books especially about self – development and some philosophical contents. These days, I spend Friday morning to go to library and borrow books. I am happy when I carry bunch of books in a bag and drink black ice coffee on my way home. In addition, I love to watch Korean drama and comedy shows. These are my methods to reduce stress!
One trait that I like about myself is my organization skills. I plan ahead everything before and follow my rules to try my best on everything. I review before class, highlight notes, and study hard. However, I don’t like myself when I worry too much. I am cool with other stuff but not with studying. Sometimes, my worries make myself really tired that I wish I can be simpler in mind.
Overall, there are three words that I value most in my life: Sincerity, effort, and modesty. I believe with these three words in my mind, I can be happy and successful.