The scene that I’d particularly like to discuss is the one pertaining to marriage. I found it to be quite amusing how the old lady firmly believed that marriage should be arranged by parents. In fact, some cultures continue to believe that to this day. Overall, this scene shows how a feudal system can be detrimental to life, which in turn creates a huge obstacle between two people whom genuinely love each other and desire to get married. Evidently, without a doubt, just as most forbidden love stories, a tragedy occurs. How would you react if something of this nature happened to you?
Through this portion of the reading, there is an emphasis on power and on how living up to expect ions is the route to take. It is clear that freedom wasn’t granted because the “authoritative figures” of these families seemed to live by a “my way or the highway” motto. I understand that rules have been established to keep some kind of order, but if we were all to live this way, with fear of doing things our own way and limit ourselves strictly to what our families think is the “right” way, life would be boring. The beauty in life is freedom. We are able to explore our own desires and create the story that we want to create, instead of a living through the predetermined one that was created by our elders.