Love in the Age of Authority
Plato’s Symposium describes the different levels of authority in connection to seeking out love. The reader is given several different explanations about which kind of love is the purist and between what two authorities. The dominant authority in Athens during this time was Man. After being a mane the next level is being free and then being a citizen. Above all though the man has to be white. The submissive consisted of women, slaves, young boys, and people of color.
One idea is that the dominant male is the penetrator where the submissive is the penetrated. The ideal most “heavenly love” is that between a free male citizen and a free young boy citizen. This relationship provides the dominate male with all of the authority. He is not only trusted to mentor the child but also teach him his place in the world. This can lead to sexual contact but it does not have too. This allows for some sharing of authority between the lovers. The young male’s power comes from being the beloved, it allows him to control a piece of the male mentor because of their love for one another. An upstanding male citizen would not do anything untoward or shameful in front of their young lover. This is the young mans since of authority however small it is.
A second idea relies on no one individual having all the authority over another but instead a couple that sees it sleep as equals that Socrates introduces. This type of love is between two minds not two bodies. This love allows you to fall for the other person mind; their hopes, dreams, failures, everything. Their love transcends past the physical and becomes purely intellectual to the point where you are no longer in love with the individual but with the conversations themselves. Once this level is reached the authority the other lover had over the other is gone. They are now able to share themselves with not just one person is anyone they choose. They can now fall in love with the personalities of people instead of thier body or their social class, or age. This love allows authority over everyone without it being power.
Authority and love in Athens is a vastly complicated affair. The older man has to worry about mentoring his young lover and making sure he knows his place in the city. He is gifted with this burden that will either bring him joy or frustration. This is because of all the ways love and authority are interpreted in the City of Athens. Many speeches were told at the Symposium explaining or praising the God of Love Eros and how they’re definitions differed from other cultures of the same era. The two ideas discussed are a brief outline for what authority meant in a time of male dominance. The role of women is not even discussed until the very last speech illustrating that they still were not thought of as more than object to be loved but not to love.