I’m a hopeless romantic, I like to blame it on the fact that I was born on Valentine’s Day but honestly it’s just my gender. Woman LOVE love. The idea of it, the act of it, and the songs and movies about. It gets us all giddy and weak in the knees and we become non functioning drones that believe we are Belle and are male counter parts are the Beasts. You all know the story…Beautiful sweet girl, bursting with love and effeminacy takes a mean ole man and turn him into a prince. And us women, so gullible and thirsty for love, believe every single bit and apply it to real life. Damn you Disney!
Infidelity Photo by Istockphoto
But if a man sees how much I love him, if he sees how much I have to give he will be a good man for me and for us right? Wrong.
Women have the misconceived notion that all the love they have to give is enough to change an unfaithful into a faithful one. That the potency of their “I love you” can move mountains and change mankind. In reality is it moves nothing but possibly a man’s anxiety level.
Beauty and the Beast Photo by fanpop
Society tells us how to get a man, how to make a man marry you, how to get a man to open up, how to give a man the best orgasm, how to cook for a man, how to be the perfect best friend, girlfriend, lover, wife, and mother of his children, and they tell us that all of this will show a man how amazing we are and has the power to change any asshole into a prince.
Young boy Photo by Sofia Mogliazzi
Women must stop this silly notion that their ‘everlasting love’ can do so, because while a woman’s head is generally influenced by her heart, a man’s heart is always influenced by his head, and not the one on his shoulders. I’m not saying not to trust all men…Just the ones over the age of ten.
Well said & agreed!!! Was great reading your post! 😀