“Prithee, tonight/Lay on my bed my wedding sheets–remember;/And call thy husband hither.” (Desdemona tells Emilia, Act IV, Scene ii, Lines 105-107)
This is the quote that lets the readers of the play know that Desdemona and Othello have not yet consummated their marriage. I find this a bit odd because they fight to be together, not worrying about judgement, or the disapproval of Desdemona’s father. If Othello and Desdemona loved each other so much, would they have not jumped in bed together as soon as they got married to show their love? When Iago lies and tells Othello that his wife has been cheating on him with Cassio, he believes it because Cassio has found Desdemona’s handkerchief that was planted by Iago so he can show some sort of proof of Desdemona’s unfaithfulness. This makes me question if Othello ever truly did love Desdemona. He was quick to believe the accusation rather than his wife he is supposed to have trust for when she explains that she has misplaced the handkerchief. Also Desdemona is a virgin before the marriage, and dies a virgin. If Othello was attracted to Desdemona, could he not just sleep with her and see if she bleeds to prove she is still a virgin? If he finds out that she was not, maybe then that would be reason enough to kill his wife. But as we know, if Othello would have slept with Desdemona, it would be proven to him that she was innocent and then maybe Iago would have gotten punished and the two could live happily together again. But I feel Othello could not have loved her because then he would not have been able to strangle the woman he loved without 100% proof, and the fact that he did over evidence that was planted is odd to me. Therefore, I question the true love between Othello and Desdemona.