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Question: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about a year and our families keep pressuring us to get married–what should I do? Answer: If you and your boyfriend are content with how things are going, then focus … Continue reading →

Question: My boyfriend and I just moved in together, but we keep fighting! I’m worried that we made the wrong decision, how can I save my relationship? Answer: What are you fighting about? If you had to rate these issues … Continue reading →

Question: Is it possible to find perfect balance between our personal and collective needs? Answer: No! There is no such thing as “perfect balance” but in order to maintain a healthy relationship it is very important to make time for … Continue reading →

Question: How can I handle the financial stress better when I am paying more for bills than my boyfriend? Answer: Is this an arrangement you agreed upon when you first moved in? Why are you paying more? Are you making … Continue reading →

Question: Will living together bring us closer, or tear us apart? Answer: If you are BOTH ready to move in together, this decision should absolutely bring you closer. Focus on the reasons why you made this decision, and don’t get … Continue reading →

Question: How long should we “test the waters” when living together before marriage? Answer: When you both feel 100% ready! Unfortunately, there is no right/wrong answer to this. But I can relate to your feelings of concern. It really depends … Continue reading →