Question: How long should we “test the waters” when living together before marriage?
Answer: When you both feel 100% ready! Unfortunately, there is no right/wrong answer to this. But I can relate to your feelings of concern. It really depends on how compatible you are as a couple and if you both want the same things in the future. Make sure you communicate effectively so that discussions of the future don’t scare either of you away. Focus more on building your relationship and enjoying this journey together, and like the old saying goes, when its meant to be, it will be.