Question: Will living together bring us closer, or tear us apart?
Answer: If you are BOTH ready to move in together, this decision should absolutely bring you closer. Focus on the reasons why you made this decision, and don’t get boggled down by the things that annoy you about each other. If you communicate in a healthy manner, these things should get resolved easily. Also try to divide the chores early on in this arrangement so one person doesn’t feel taken advantage of.
If this experience isn’t what you imagined at first, be patient! After all, this is a new experience for both of you. But if you are constantly arguing and neither one is happy, reevaluate the situation and think about what is best for YOU.