Success Doesn’t Buy Happiness, Happiness Buys Success
New York is a city of dreams. Just about everyone who has come to live in New York City does so because they are chasing a dream. They all want to have success and with New York’s anything-can-happen atmosphere people are attracted like moths to a flame. Hundreds of people come to the big apple with hopes of making it big. They all want to be successful like the doctors, lawyers, businessmen, and even celebrities who live here. But very few people would consider themselves successful. So then what makes someone successful and how does one know when they have officially “made it”?
Some are quick to answer that money and fame brings about success. However, we all have heard of the well known phrase: money doesn’t buy happiness, and we incessantly hear various celebrities complain about how they hate feeling like they are under a microscope constantly. Considering that I am neither abundantly wealthy nor am I famous in any sense of the word I cannot really agree or disagree with this; however I have figured out the common denominator to success. The one thing that you must have in order to make it on critical streets of New York City and anywhere else in life is happiness.
People are different, especially in New York. There are no two people who are identical, so the idea of success will vary form person to person. To a dieter passing up the chance to eat a slice of delicious chocolate cake equals success; however in my eyes the same action would be viewed as an epic failure. But the one thing that everyone in the entire world desires is happiness. Everyone craves that harmony between themselves and the lives they lead, and they want success because they feel that it will make them happier. Failing to understand that happiness is what will lead to their success, many people find themselves prisoners of an endless loop, trying to obtain success in order to reach happines.
When one is happy doors seem to fly open for them. In fact, recently there have been numerous studies preformed on the correlations between success and happiness. And all of the investigations basically have come up with the same findings: happiness is what will lead to your success. “Scientists reviewed 225 studies involving 275,000 people and found that chronically happy people are in general more successful in their personal and professional lives” (livescience.com). Sonja Lyubomirsky, a professor of psychology at the University of California, Riverside has even dedicated a great deal of her time and efforts to further exploring positive psychology, which deals with how happiness affects your success. When you are happy your mind is open to new opportunities in all aspects of life, a happier more positive outlook is what will lead to your success regardless of who you are.
Its seems like happiness would be the obvious answer to what leads to success, yet so many people over look it. They focus on other attributes such as acquiring money and fame through hard work and a good education. Although these qualities are important the can sometimes lead you to unhappiness. However, if New York can teach you anything its lesson would be that life are meant to be lived and experienced and you can make it by simply living life to the fullest. An important thing to always remember when chasing success is that “Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” (Albert Schweitzer