Monthly Archives: April 2011

“daily dose of distorted reality”

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/facebook-blues-12796540

“daily dose of distorted reality”

I do think that social media distorts reality and makes others feel bad about their own lives. We are even aware that the information flaunted on their page is not the complete story and still we’re envious and begin to believe that our lives are boring and mundane. Now that Facebook allows you to “check-in” to restaurants and other places; people are announcing to their friends, “hey look, I’m not home, I’m out and about enjoying my life.” We feed into this distortion by taking part of foursquare or by posting up pictures or statuses of what an amazing time you had.

People post these up to share their excitement or enjoyment with their friends rather than to brag. (Hopefully most people are like that). I think the reason we started to share our lives was initially to share what we’re experiencing, but somewhere it started to be about who can “out-do” the other. And that’s when people start doing crazy things and posting them on Youtube to get more viewer counts. It’s like back when Myspace was big, some people took provocative pictures to get more friend requests.

This article from the LA Times talks about how “an individual’s social success in the virtual world doesn’t appear to carry over into the real world.” Which is what the video clip above is saying as well. The younger generation using social media has grown up surrounded with social media and high usage of technology that I don’t think they’re aware that their reality is distorted.

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The pros of blogging.


It is a new trend now everyone is interesting in blogging. It a new way to express your opinion and provide information about a subject matter and be rewarded sometimes for it. It another form of social media that is claiming the interest of many. Blogging allows you to fully express what on your mind and gives you the opportunity to choose from a wider range of privacy setting options. Blogging unlike social networks such as face book allows to choose a privacy setting which allows only a specific audience to view your blogs. you are given the choice to have your blogs open to internet search engines or the choice of creating a pass word for only you and selected individuals to view your blog.

Another pro about blogging is that it opens up a world of opportunity in the workforce. For example a future journalist. BLOGGING allows you to create a specific brand for yourself so that your audience or even an employer can identify you by the blogs you produce. Many employers take the opportunity to search blogging sites so that they can get their hands on the next “big thing” or an employee who has shown great potential in their writing and can be a great asset towards their company.

The video I posted shows the pros and cons of blogging . It shows that blogging can have a negative effect on your personal brand because not everyone would share the same opinion with you and can prove you wrong damaging your credibility…

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Cyber-bullying

With the good there’s always bad.I mention this because, social networks are intended to bring numerous social networks and communities together to share commonalities; however, most of the time these sites are misused.In this article, two teens created a false Facebook account and used it against a fellow classmate.

The victim’s father felt it was best for the teens to attend pretrial diversion programs.This program assists teens understand the harm and consequences of their actions, and punishment is assigned to them.

The girls said they targeted the victim because “nobody liked her.”Which is often times the main reason to be targeted.In addition to boost the opponents self esteem.

In this article teens are warned of websites that may affect them, mentally.It mentions a site called Formspring, which gives users the opportunity to ask fellow users questions, anonymously.According to parenting expert Michele Borba,

“Formspring is one of the new kinds of websites that looks like a social network that is popping up online for our daughters. It looks tame enough…but once they log on, what it actually encourages instead is to send vicious notes toward one another in an anonymous nature,” said Borba.

However, as I learned in another sociology course, as we use the streets of any city we cannot blame the street for misuse.We can blame the individuals who use it incorrectly.I feel this is the same for users of the internet.After Borba’s statement I feel she is trying to blame the website for the content which is visible to users.However, we must keep in mind these comments written by users can be positive, not only negative.

In addition to cyber-bullying, teens are bombarded with other types of information while using the web.For example,other sites that promote unhealthy lifestyles.The article gives it opinion on what should be done.Read below.

So how do parents keep their teens off these websites? Our experts offer this advice:

First, invest in parental control software; monitor your teen’s online history; do Google searches on their full names to see if anything comes up; and limit their time online.

“You need to step up to the plate. You need to monitor because we’re raising our children in a tough world,” said Borba.

Since we are adapting to technology and educational institutions use the internet in classroom settings and for take home assignments(for any subjects)would this be the solution to cyber-bullying for teen girls?Or is it important to know the factors behind the situation from both parties?

 

 

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Communicate from beyond the grave

Social media has changed the way we live. Now it is changing death too. I’ve seen the facebook status posts that say “When I die, friends will go to my funeral, good friends will cry at my funeral, but my best friend will change my facebook status to ‘Chillin with Jesus’.” Well now your best friend won’t have to because you can now be prepared for death in the digital age. LifeEnsured is preparing people for specifically that. This service allows people to control what happens to their accounts. From beyond the grave you can control what happens to your facebook for example. You can have you facebook deactivated, disable wall posts, change everything to past tense and even post a final status. This service is offered for over 30 online services, including Facebook, Twitter and WordPress. You won’t have to worry about your digital information living on forever. LifeEnsured gets notified either by the Social Security Administration or your confidants who are people you select to notify LifeEnsured of your death. LifeEnsured will take care of anything from your match.com profile to transfer of ownership of your PayPal account to who controls your email. You can send out a final email and other various changes to any of your online accounts. This is a way of protecting all your digital information in a time where almost everything we do is documented online. There are different types of plans offered, some of which are free and an unlimited service is priced at $300.

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Constant surveillance of our lives

There is constant surveillance of our lives. Whether you’re walking down the street, making a phone call or sitting behind a computer, there is always someone watching or recording our moves. As I attempted to find a video clip showing the constant surveillance of our everyday lives, I stumbled upon a website called earthcam.com. As if the constant surveillance and cameras throughout the city for the purpose of terrorist threats and what is claimed to be for our protection isn’t enough. Surveillance is being watched over to protect and enforce social control of criminal activities and most recently to monitor for terrorist activities.
Now not only think about what you put out on the internet but what about the things you don’t put on the internet? Like the cameras watching you at the intersection of Christopher Street and 7th avenue streaming to the people at home on their computers on the website cnyclive.com. The people at home get to watch you at that intersection and the surrounding store with the power to control the direction of the camera and even zoom in.
An article from 2001 on the wired.com mentioned websites such as beer (dot) com, which is not currently a valid URL. This site allowed people at home to watch what was happening at participating bars online. Bar owners claimed that it allowed their usual customers to see if other frequent customers were at the bar. Some bars didn’t even notify the customers at the bar that their actions were being streamed live over the bars webcam.
Websites such as cnyclive.com and beer (dot) com make us aware to the fact that we may not know when we are being watched so we constantly have to be surveilling ourselves. The idea of the panopticon now becomes a major part of our life. The idea that you are constantly being surveilled causes you to be self disciplined. These websites should also raise questions as to what should and shouldn’t be private. Though we may not be partaking in private actions in the street, does that mean its okay for it to be broadcasted throughout the world?

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Josh Harris.

After watching Josh Harris’s documentary in class I learned how his childhood days(exposure to the television) affect his later years of life. Harris was forced to watch television to keep his mind of mischievous acts.This resulted in his, what I feel, obsession with Gilligan’s Island.Since he focused on numerous characters on television,he developed into these characters, as mentioned.Do you think an individual can become addicted to the web/or any form of social media in a short period of time, or does it occur over years.

The documentary puts great emphasis on the mother/son relationship Harris endured.I am a big believer in the importance of having a strong, supportive parent or guidance in ones life for success to be possible.However, he seemed very distant from his family especially his mother.As his family members stated,she had the least bit of time during his years of development.This resulted in his relationship with the television.I mention this because I felt Harris had no remorse to his mother’s death, in later years.The fact that he sent her a video with his last words before she passed was memorable.It was in a way an exchanged gift.

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Facebook Stalking=Socially Acceptable

 

 

" Socially Acceptable"

http://www.teenvogue.com/connect/blogs/soundoff/2011/02/facebook-stalking.html
Stalking is normally shunned in our society. The law prohibits these actions by allowing ‘victims’ to file restraining orders,etc. So why is it that something that is socially unacceptable and illegal is the complete opposite..a norm..online!!!

What is the difference between trying to find out more a lot how a person looks..who they hang out with (Do you have mutual friends?)..where they work..God forbid you continue to find them intriguing..Guess what? You are stalking them!!!

If you were to behave this way in reality, outside of the internet..some might call you a CREEP or peeping tom, and it wouldn’t be followed by a “lol…:)”

According to urbandictionary.com, a facebook stalker (yes they actually coined that term) is :”An individual who secretly looks up people on facebook, going through albums, comments and personal information to piece together a picture of this person. Potentially developing into an obsession.”

However, in the article I was reading in Teen Vogue, entitled, Cyberspy: Are you a Facebook Stalker? “Experts say you shouldn’t feel strange about regularly checking out someone’s page- as long as your intentions are healthy.” But what is healthy?  It is also said too much of anything is a bad…being excessive can never lead to anything positive. I believe if you wouldn’t do it in real life, don’t do it through the internet.

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R.I.P Social Media?..Yea Right!

http://technorati.com/blogging/article/has-social-media-had-its-hey/

Social Media has not had its hey day!!! Not only can you speak to relatives and friends far away, but you are able to Skype them into your living room. So Social media hey day is heating up ;)!! The potential of and the demand for these social networking sites remains infinite.

Social media has its positive and negative attributes like anything else. Its major drawbacks stems from easy access to the world wide web and people’s personal information. The fact that you can chat, make friends, play games with others from around the globe is not only amazing, but magical. The drawback here is bad,mean people are also online. Sometimes, there is no telling who is who. You go on, and just hope for the best!

However,when social media is correctly used, it affords us a broad and varied spectrum of services such as online teaching and learning, shopping,and movies/theater. Nowadays, you really don’t have to leave your home to accomplish many of your daily tasks. With the flick of a button, you have arrived at your destination through a link or intended site.

I think this article sums up how beneficial social media can be when the author states,…”you need to have a strategy in place that takes into account your strengths. Additionally it needs to have specific targets and goals, all driven by a tactical, yet strategical, plan. You need to have a way of measuring your social media marketing results and a means of fine-tuning them”. Because networking is key to a successful path in this day and age and social media is the medium that bridges that flow of data.

 

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Self Esteem v. NewsFeed

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/10/business/10ping.html?scp=7&sq=social%20media&st=cse

Your Facebook wall can truly make you feel like a wall flower especially when you are sitting at home, minding your business, just trying to keep up with your everyday chores and assignments then all of  a sudden…an URGE or desire hits you..the need to see what exciting venture your friends, ‘frienimies’ (friend+enemies) and family are completing without you.

The need becomes all consuming, and before you see it for what it really is, you have tuned into the web. There are your friends!… all having a great time…they say a picture is worth a 1,000 words, and these are speaking for themselves. FUN!!!!

Yet here you are, missing out on what you might be thinking is one of the greatest moments of your life. To make matters worse,you’re notified and a text rings through, again you are invited in as an observer to the many pleasures and scents of the moment.What do you do? Mostly, all you can do is post a response on your friend’s wall as you remain a virtual wall flower.

According to the article, “Feel Like a Wallflower? Maybe It’s Your Facebook Wall”, Behavioral Psychologist, having studied the behavior of the techno geeks found their actions to be addictive in some instances, while Professor Ariely said, …”You can imagine how things could have been different, and that really motivates us to behave in strange ways.”

I can surely relate to feeling like a “virtual wallflower” several times on Facebook. It seems like a competition sometimes whoever updates their profile picture in a new “exciting” place is cool and has such an interesting life, so dare I argue my face hasn’t changed that drastically from last week til present day..I am a loser!!! Woe is me. -_-

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Vote for Me..I’m on Facebook?!

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/20/us/politics/20social.html?_r=2

Here’s an open invitation with a twist!!

Everyone is invited to a town hall meeting with President Obama and Mark Zuckerberg, the CEO of Facebook.This town hall style meeting will be held at the Facebook headquarters, and focus is on the Economy. Since Tuesday afternoon, more than 22,000 of the chief’s 19.3 million followers had responded to the call by signing up. If we remember, during the last election President Obama was able to galvanize supporters to action by utilizing the current social media tools available, and quite effectively so. Tools like Twitter, Facebook,Apps. Testing, Youtube etc. leaving his Republican counterparts in the dust.

However, for the upcoming 2012 elections the Republicans have all geared up, and are better prepared this time around for the online battle. The driving force for this swift progression into the technological age by the Republicans was recognized by them to be one of expedience. Now more than ever,with voter empowerment on an all time high, is there any wonder both groups are sustaining, maintaining, and upgrading their use of these social media tools available to them?

I personally don’t blame Republicans for trying to join the social media bandwagon. People feel like they have a better understanding or deeper connection with celebrities through this medium, so it could definitely work in favor of a politician.

Twitter, Facebook, Youtube, and specially designed applications..watch out and prepare yourself for a news feed full of slogans to court and coax prospective voters for the 2012 elections!!!

 

 

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