There was a lot of manipulation and trickery in both of these texts. And coerced marriages, which started off well but ended horribly.
Old nanny and Manago set ‘traps’ to extort love from their victims.
Manago and Toyo-o coincidently met while taking shelter during a rain storm. Manago got Toyo-o to let her borrow his umbrella, resulting in them having to meet again, and have him grow more attracted and interested in her. He couldn’t even sleep well that night, and dreamt of her. She had already had a hold on him.
“The shrewd old hen certainly knew her business when it came to promoting a love affair”
She barged into the home of Osen and put on this whole frantic, dramatic performance which led the people in the house to believe that there was a boy who was so miserably in love with Osen and if his desires weren’t met he would die in a week and come back to haunt everyone in the house. She was successful in her mischief. “Osen is old enough to get married now, and we should keep this man in mind if he has a suitable livelihood.”(Barrel Maker..)
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“A woman in my miserable situation should perhaps drown herself in the sea. But if I did, it would weigh heavily on your heart and that, too, would be a serious crime. What I have said is the truth, but please dismiss it as the foolish talk of a drunken woman and forget about it”p.636 (Manago, Bewitched) To which Toyo-o relented and became open to her proposal.
“It is because of you that I am about to die before my time, and since I have no daughter of my own, you must pray for me when I am gone.” This lead Osen to feel pity and become more open to the idea of meeting this boy who was so madly in love with her. “If you should reject him now, my resentment will fall on no one but you. She spoke with all the cleverness that years of wide experience had given her.” She had Osen where she wanted her, and had to ensure she kept her there. By feeling guilt and a little fear. (Old Nanny, Barrel Maker..)
We can look at Manago and Old Nanny as being the same, and Maroya and Osen.
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“Pitying him on the one hand, and dreading the evil tenacity of that devil on the other, they decided that they should not let him remain a bachelor any longer and discussed plans to get a wife for him” (Bewitched)
I don’t see how sending him into the arms of another woman was supposed to help or fix his situation. If anything it could have caused a whole nother situation. They weren’t in love, they barely knew each other.
” ‘Osen,’ the old crone said craftily, has told me several times that she would not have s hand laborer for a husband, and she isn’t sure whether or not the cooper will do. But it seems to me that she is being unnecessarily choosy. If, in spite of all, they can just get along in life together, she should be satisfied.’ ….. Having heard the old Nanny’s ideas on the subject, Osen’s employers sent for the cooper and concluded a marriage contract with him.”