Stockholm Syndrome in ‘Pamela’
For my final essay, I would discuss about ‘Stockholm Syndrome’ in Pamela by Samuel Richardson. Even though ‘Stockholm Syndrome’ came out in 1973, which was much later than the time the book Pamela published in 1740, the relationship between main character Pamela and her master Mr. B assumes aspect that syndrome. She was in situations that can cause the syndrome, which were being aware that Mr. B was life-threatening but also sometimes he was kind to her, being isolated from people except for Mr. B and his people, and recognizing that she cannot escape from Mr. B.
Pamela says that she realized that she had been falling in love with Mr. B as like Mr. B fell in love with her but I thought that’s because Pamela would feel safety when she believed that she was already falling in love with Mr. B. Also, if she believed that she is falling in love with him, she can marry him, which could be the way to protect her religious faith about her virginity and morality (protecting her virginity before marriage). She has kept protecting her faith as like her life under lots of threats, so persisting threaten above her virginity from Mr. B could lead to conclusion that she should love him.
When I searched ‘Stockholm Syndrome’, it says that especially when attacker (Mr. B) being nice to victim (Pamela) during victim is under the situation being threatened, victim’s ego considers that kindness as the only way to survive. And victim builds attachment relation because the victim thanks to attacker not have harmed (Mr. B didn’t actually rape her before they married).
‘Stockholm Syndrome’ is described as giving up freedom on consciousness (mind or spirit). Some victims who have aspects of the Stockholm Syndrome defend their attackers or kidnapper when they make a statement about them because they already equate themselves with kidnappers and sympathize them deeply.
So, with this all situations above my central question is ‘how explain Pamela’s fear of Mr. B turned away to love him?’ and ‘Could reader think that love is true love?’