I have always been a very self sufficient person, preferring to figure things out on my own rather than depending on someone else helping me find the answer. However, I have realized this way of thinking just isn’t possible in college. Especially in class when the professor isn’t clear about an assignment, I have to look to other people for help in order to survive college.
For this project, I got help from Maria (our peer mentor) and from the visits from the different centers. For example, one of the Honors program liasons helped us find our organization by providing some websites for us to look through. This proved extremely helpful because otherwise we wouldn’t be able to find any non for profit organizations.
By going to these centers for the project, it has let me learn that it is okay to ask for help and that I should actively look for it. Because of this, I have learned to ask the professor questions whether in class or by email (I prefer to email, less personal) or draw on the knowledge of my friends for answers. Additionally, I have gone to the writing center and SACC for help on assignments. Those sessions are usually helpful and they point me in the correct direction for each project.
I have definitely grown as a student this past semester. I feel like I will be more successful over the course of the next 3 years because I won’t hesitate to reach out to all these resources so that I can accomplish all my goals. During the next 3 years, I see myself keeping close with my friends in the Baruch Scholars group and making sure to ask for help and give help to those who need it. College isn’t an individual project, instead it is a group project where one person is the leader and they draw on others around them to help complete their project of graduation. There is no way I would be able to survive this first semester let alone the next 3 years without everyone around me supporting me and helping me grow as a person and as a student.