New Year’s Sacrifice
The aspect that appeals to me the most is the human nature of kindness versus coldness. As the story progresses I found that the interactions that Hsiang Lin’s wife faced became colder and colder. Her husband had died and she found a home with the narrators uncle’s family. Through this she became happier. However tragedy hits her and her mother in law comes and forcibly takes her and sells her off to marriage. Her life during and after this series of events just continued to go downhill. Throughout this I found that the author really showed how human nature often is at times. People often judge someone based on what they hear rather than what they know. Hsiang Lin’s wife was the object of everyone’s attention when she had something to give or share, however when everyone had already heard her story, they were not interested. I found this to be very accurate of how people often are. We tend to get tired of things very easily and therefore lose sympathy or empathy for people. I think personally, this relates to the modern example of people asking for help on the subways. Originally I had felt sympathy for those who asked for help but after continuous exposure to these people, often times I would just put in my earphones and ignore them. In the case of Hsiang Lin’s wife, I feel like she was forced into isolation by everyone. Noone wanted to hear about her hardships. I also enjoyed how the author kind of touches upon customs and traditions to emphasize how people saw Hsiang Lin’s wife. In Chinese culture, new years is a very important and a time for us to honor ancestors, traditions through sacrifices and such. The fact that the author showed how the uncle and aunt did not want Hsiang Lin’s wife near or touching any of the ancestral items, shows how they saw her. They saw her as unholy and felt like she would sully the sacrifice. I felt like the author did an extremely good job of displaying the extent to how Hsiang Lin’s wife was seen. She had originally been in charge of all ancestral preparations and now she was left with nothing to do. Overall, I thought that this story was very sad and I felt bad for the main character. She was hit with bad luck on bad luck and even after she passed, she was seen as a nuisance.