4th manage the relationship bet. family & college???

i went to the workshop about the  “managing the relationship bet. family & college”.  The performer asked us what we need to manage in this relationship. Most people answered “time and money”. We started to spend less time with family. Because college needs a large part of time in the day. We need to stay in library more often to read our textbooks. I used to go to grandma’s house to eat dinner and help her to do a little houseworks. However, these hws and reading r killing me!!!! I perfer to stay at home with my textbooks now!!! Therefore, there ll be less connections bet. me and my grandma…..Nevertheless, time manage is also a hot topic. i ll figure it out !!!!