http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sq97RxhieT4&feature=player_detailpage – This video is here to show you where I live. It provides a nice visual and backdrop to my life.—I take the video while riding my skateboard down my street.
Who am I?
I am a son, a grandson, a brother, a Jew, a student, a tennis player, a friend and a role model.
The most important people in my life are my family and friends. No matter how much I might try to describe “who am I” or even my hobbies, my description will always circle back to my family and friends. From the time I was but an infant, my parents ingrained in me my values as an American, as a Jew, as a son and as a brother.
When I was ten, my grandfather, whom I call Gido (which is Arabic for grandpa) asked me, “Steven, what do you want to do?” This question can be taken on a large scale or on a smaller scale. As a typical ten year old would answer, I answered on the smaller scale. “Gido, I want to play tennis.” Tennis was the only sport I didn’t play at this age and I was all for trying it. That same day I went for a walk around town with my Gido, and came across a crummy garage sale. There were two rackets hanging on display. One, a wooden racket with a head size about equal to three tennis balls, and one so long it was almost my height at the time. Having no knowledge that these rackets were outdated I asked my grandfather to buy both of them. Every Sunday my Gido would take me to the courts around the corner from my house and feed me tennis balls. I grew to love the sport, not only because of the sports objectives but because it was something I used to do with my grandfather. At the time I remember feeling it was my responsibly as a grandson to play every Sunday with him and I loved that. My grandfather not only shaped me into the family oriented person I am today. He shaped me into the confidant young adult I am as well, he always pumped me up as a kid making me believe I was invincible and can do anything I desired. And I still have this mentality today.
One of the most difficult aspects of leaving New Jersey and moving to Brooklyn is leaving my family. I always felt I had the obligation to shape my brother into an adult, an athlete and an overall respectful young adult. I try my best to be a respectable role model for him to look up to. Now that I live away from home most of the week, I really miss just hanging out with my brother and watching him grow into the little stud he’s taking after.
As the oldest son of five, I was the house guinea pig. My parents always sheltered me from the outside world (which isn’t too hard living in NJ.) As I got older my parents slowly stared giving me my freedom and independence. Before going out they would always speak to me about the importance of being responsible and handling myself as a role model for my younger siblings. These talks defiantly helped shape my morals and values as a young adult, son, and older brother.
As you could see from the video, my house is always occupied by friends, and family. I come from a quite block in West Longbranch NJ, far away from the hustle and bustle of the city. My surrounding shaped me into the person I am today. I am a product of my surroundings.