After taking some time to think about my observations I came to consider that my boyfriend not being able to find a job has been ruining his confidence. I believe this is a real problem because when you feel gross about yourself/ not valued you start to question things and the people around you. I try to be empathetic to him when he talks to me about this by explaining how even though I don’t understand 100%, I’m there to support him and I can relate to feeling rejected from past experiences. I know that feeling undervalued is a horrible feeling and i’m going to continue to support and look after him for jobs.