The Coquettte By Hannah W. Foster, is a book or also known as a females guide to love. This book has extreme radical views for 18th century America, focusing on women and how they should be able to make their own choices, have their own thoughts and break free from the “traditional” views of society. This book focuses on the main character Eliza Wharton, whom is the radical woman amongst her group of friends and family. She believes that being “free” and having friendships are more important than becoming married, because this is how Eliza acts she gets a bad reputation.
“Marriage is the tomb of friendship.” Eliza says this to her close friend Lucy Freeman when she writes to her about how important friendship is. These feelings she has are radical in her time causing her close friends and family to become worried, they think she is naive. Eliza believes that once you are married you lose who you are as a person, you forget your friends because you are too busy with your new life. It’s interesting to see that someone in the 18th century, being completely unable to vote or have any rights, all she can do is marry a man and reproduce. It’s detrimental to the men in this society, because it puts them in danger, against females. When Eliza calls marriage a tomb, she literally means that it will die, that marriage will not allow for the same type of friendship there once was before it.
I think we can expand on this quote a bit further and say that Eliza or Foster thought that once you are married you can’t have male friends either. Eliza was to be married to a man, but he passed away. Once he passed she was liberated, and with this new freedom she wanted to explore her options and many people labeled her a “coquette.” She wanted to make sure that these men were worth it, but she also wanted to maintain her freedom and see and do what she pleased whenever she pleased. No one in her time agreed with her actions, thinking she was almost a rebel. If we compare what Eliza did in her time to modern day society, she would be considered an angel, but I digress. Eliza was simply trying to be a free woman for as long as she could before her life had to change, and all of her friendships had to be severed.