Hello everyone, my name is Rina.
One of the most defining moments of my life came this summer when I realized that in college and adulthood, there is no reason to have meaningless friendships. During a casual day with my friends, I noticed two of the girls making fun of a third girl who wasn’t present at the time. I told them it was disrespectful to joke about someone who was supposedly their friend, and wasn’t even there to defend herself. Although they dismissed what I said, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. If they could easily make fun of her, what made me think they wouldn’t do it to me? I haven’t spoken to either of the girls since. I realize that I can’t waste my time on people who can throw others under the bus without a second thought. That moment significantly redefined how I viewed friendship and its importance.
As an incoming freshman, I see college as a world of opportunities. Cliché, I know. I expect college to be a place where I can find not only what I am good at, but what I really love to do, whether or not those end up being the same things. Not paying for college is like icing on the cake because it lets me take more diverse classes without worrying about the cost. My hope for this first semester is to keep my grade point average high and really retain some knowledge from my classes. I am taking some really interesting courses, like psychology and speech, which can give me important lessons for the future. With my excitement for the future come many worries. One of my biggest concerns is underestimating the work load ahead of me. For now, I have not been receiving too much work, and I am afraid I will get used to this. However, I am trying to stay ahead of the game and not slack off. I am also concerned that finals week will be too much to handle, but there is still time before I have to worry about that.