Blog 2

Topic 1: Desensitization

Rather than focusing on the common desensitization of violence, I want to focus on how media influences children, especially young girls, who are adopting adult-like behaviors such as wearing makeup and dressing more provocatively at a younger age. Many of them look far older than I did at their age, and it’s heartbreaking because I believe this is part of a deeper desensitization cycle. This shift impacts not only their physical appearance but also, their mental development since they’re exposed to societal pressures at an early age. The internet shows them the “best versions” of people, leading to constant comparisons which can be damaging over time.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-crime-and-justice-doctor/201905/exposure-media-violence-and-emotional-desensitization

Article 1 Summary:

The article revolves around the increasing desensitization to hatred, intolerance, and violence, especially children due to social media being easily accessible nowadays. School shootings might be one of the unfortunate outcomes of this desensitisation culture. Additionally, even though social media is a platform for reconnecting and sharing positive moments, it has transformed into a platform of hate, cyberbullying, and depictions of violence. The author further discusses how society is more likely to share their political, social, beliefs, and religious thoughts on social media without considering the viewpoints of others. Due to these mass outrage of opinions and violent news, children today are exposed to violence as school shooting drills like the ALICE training are a part of their daily school life these days. Students are so desensitized that school shootings no longer surprise or shock them anymore. 

Quote: “ “My position is that today’s children, adolescents, and young adults are being exposed to too much violence and negativity to the point where another school shooting simply becomes another school shooting without evoking the emotions we would expect.” “

Topic 2: Parenting Styles

When it comes to parenting, I wonder if there’s a method or formula to raise a “perfect” child. I question whether two families that use the same parenting style will produce children with similar behaviors and values. Some might say that siblings are already raised by the same parents and under the same conditions but isn’t there always a favorite child for each parent?  With all the parenting styles taught in AP psych including authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, and neglectful, I want to dive deeper into how each type produces each product. 

https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Family/parenting-style-significantly-influence-childs-mental-health-new/story?id=98266998

Article 2 Summary:

This article highlights the effects of hostile parenting through a study where over 7,500 children in Ireland from 9 months old were observed until they turned 9 years old. Hostile parenting, which involves physical discipline and overcontrol was discovered to have a negative impact on children, increasing the risk of developing mental health issues. Further, it is observed that a warm parenting style did not show any effects while consistent parenting where rules and regulations are often taught showed a positive light. 

Quote: “Our findings suggest that hostile parenting should be avoided as much as possible in early childhood if we want to prevent children from developing increased mental health symptoms,” said lead author Dr. Ioannis Katsantonis, a doctoral researcher at the University of Cambridge.”

Topic 3: Cancel Culture

What is the line between holding someone accountable and going too far? As a big user of media, I’ve noticed that the cancel culture has gone out of hand during these years. It seems like public figures and everyday individuals are under constant inspection, with social media calling for accountability in numerous ways that can feel overwhelming. I know that it is necessary to hold accountable for harmful actions, but not to the point where individuals receive death threats or face harassment. 

Spice is temporary, but GPA is forever.

Greetings class! I’ll be your chef for the day. Unfortunately, if spice isn’t your friend, you might need to sit this one out. Today, I’m bringing you a dish that has fueled me through overnight study sessions and kept me more awake than any energy drinks. Before I announce the star of the day, let’s grab our VIPIs (very important personal ingredients) for this masterpiece.

We’ll need
– peeled 2 small garlic cloves
– 1/2 teaspoon salt
– 1/2 teaspoon sugar (you deserve a little sweetness after the bitterness of life’s deadlines)
– 2 tablespoons fish sauce (nam pla yae)
– 2 tablespoons fresh lime juice
– 1 tablespoon dry-roasted salted peanuts
– 1 tablespoon dried shrimp
– 2 sliced fresh chilies (depends on your spice tolerance)
– 3 cherry tomatoes
– 1 green (unripe) papaya
– Lettuce for decoration (stomach eats with eyes first)

I was going to ask for a drumroll for the announcement for this dish but if you’re a fan of Thai cuisine, it is no surprise that it is the legendary Som Tom, the green papaya salad. If you’re not a fan, I’m introducing you to my secret weapon that is packed with sweet, sour, and spicy flavors when Red Bull, Celsius, or even cold brew has failed me.

Class, you see, after a certain point of drinking excessive amounts of caffeine, it starts to lose its effect. Yep, I think I’m immune. But, Som Tum? Never lets me down. Something about that sharp tang of lime with the hint of salt and the fiery kick of the spiciness jolts me back to life. Most people would know how parents usually bring fruits when their children are up at night studying, such as watermelon, grapes, bananas, or maybe a nice orange papaya…Well, mine’s a papaya, too. It’s just not ripe. Sorry class, I’m supposed to teach you guys how to cook, not recall the top ten hardest life moments.

Let’s dive in. First, we’ll need to shred the papaya. This unripe papaya will be tough as it is still unripe. It’s like a rebellious friend who never shows up to class. We’ll need to thin it down into strips and put it aside in a bowl. Next, we have to crush the garlic and sprinkle in salt since salt is like the friend that incorporates the sass in life that you didn’t know you needed. Then, we’ll throw this mixture into a blender and add in the dried shrimp which is optional, but they’re like the bougie cousins who show up when you want to feel fancy. Once they’re all mixed into a paste, transfer them into a larger bowl. This is when the peanuts and the shredded chilies who are the friends that bring the crunch and drama to your life will be thrown in the bowl. 2 tablespoons of lime juice and 2 tablespoons of fish sauce will be mixed and followed into the big bowl. Then, our sweet-talker friend who always makes sure everything is balanced, sugar, will join the party. Finally, toss in the washed tomatoes and the out-casted rebellious shredded papaya into the big bowl and mix it all up together. The papaya will definitely have a character development as the mixture is going on, soaking in all the flavors around them as it finally becomes the main character. Overall, lay the mixture on some lettuce for that “I’ve got it together” look, even if you absolutely do not.

There we have it, Som Tum, the dish that is ultimately my lifesaver at night. I hope everyone also enjoys the dish and remember: spice is temporary, but GPA is forever. Kind of.

Som Tum - Food Menu - Sip Saam Thai - Thai Restaurant in Austin, TX