Growing up as an ABC, American Born Chinese, my relationship with my mother has been very similar to Amy Tan’s. Throughout Amy Tan’s essay she incorporates a lot of different experiences with her mom that reveals her mother’s English and the effect her mother’s English had on the way she was treated. Similarly, I was and am in the same boat as Amy Tan but, with my mother she does not speak English at all, not even “broken” English. At a very young, as far as I can remember, my mother’s language barrier led to others treating her differently in American restaurants, stores or just on the street. I’ve witnessed for many years the treatment is different from when my mother has a concern and needs help versus me, her daughter that speaks English has the same concern and needs help the attitude from majority of the public differs. The employees make assumptions about my mother who does not speak English as less, less than people who do. Less respect, less tolerance, less compassion and just less. As if knowing English makes one superior and more well educated. The example Amy Tan gave about her mother not taken seriously, given good service and ignored at department stores, banks and restaurants are prime examples I’ve witnessed as an adolescent and coming to the realization of the problem. It’s evident because once I translate the questions or concerns my mother had the response differs meanwhile it’s exactly what my mother was trying to express but, two different responses from the people. It’s made clear in many situations that the language barrier is a disadvantage in how people interactions are altered and the perception of that person changes. Although, Amy Tan at first was ashamed of her mother’s limited english I’ve never been ashamed of the fact my mother did not even speak English. For me, it is clear that even with the language barrier my mother has been able to overcome this barrier and survive in this country for decades therefore, it is evident to me that English is not and does not make on superior, smarter or better than anyone else. It’s just a language and fitting in is not what is most important. Intelligence does not come from language. My mother not speaking English has actually taught me all my life that people will be disadvantaged and treated unfairly but, it does not mean there’s no hope or good that’ll come out of it.