I always dreamed of being super involved on campus, socializing with people who reflected my vibe and shared my desires. I dreamed of walking through the halls of my school and recognizing the faces of fellow club members and being able to comfortably greet them and ask how their day has been.
Recognizing the faces of my classmates is not new to me. I come from a small high school where my graduating class was 35. My former high school is not just a secondary school, but a middle school as well, so I was with these classmates for 7 years. Being able to recognize the faces and names of my classmates was an experience that I treasured. We were able to grow up together and see each other off to better things.
Because of this sheltered socialization for 7 years I worried for my college experience. I worried that I no longer knew how to make friends. I worried that I had become socially awkward through out the years. With worries, comes desires and dreams and mine was that my worries would be wrong.
On September 7th, 2017 I went to my first college student club event. I walked through the crowded second floor and tried to locate eyes with a club I can identify with. A couple of steps before me stood ASEDOM, where they were giving out Mamita’s Coconut Cream Ices. My mouth watered. I took an Icy and soon found myself in a conversation with ASEDOM’s vice president. As the conversation progressed I asked, “What is ASEDOM’s purpose in Latinx Heritage Month?” She said
“ASEDOM’s role in all of Latin Heritage Month is just to put in a Dominican representation into the expression of Hispanic culture that we’re trying to show. We just want to show pride in both our cultural and academic backgrounds.”
-Katherine Hernandez, Sophomore, VP of ASEDOM
What the VP said impacted the expectations I had for my college experience. I realized it didn’t matter the amount of friends I had or how active I was it; the only thing thing that mattered is that within this experience I find myself and not just learn to express my self as an American student, but as the Afro-Latina I am.