When I was 11 I got beaten by 4 guys in my school. When I came home crying, my father asked me what happened to me. When I told him the whole story, he got angry with me and said that I better not go back home before I learn how to fight. And I indeed learned how to fight.
When I was 17, we went to a Muay Thai Chempionship in Kazakhstan. I won my fight and made my way to semifinal. My friend whom I knew since the time when I first stared to train was next. He was winning the fight before he lost concentration and got a high kick right to his temple. Everyone thought it was just a knock out, but I knew that it was not… People don’t survive kicks like this, at least they are not used to, and I was right.
After this incident I decided never to fight again. And I would ask you do the same: avoid any kind of fights-they don’t resolve problems, they just ruin other lives and bring devastation to yours.