If you’re like me , or like most people now a days, you listen to music basically everyday and every chance you can. From time to time you will come across a song and think “Wow this song was written for/about me!”. The lyrics say what you been trying to say for so long. You can connect to it, relate and it’s pretty cool that you’re not the only person feeling that way.
1. Home by Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros
This is the number one song on my list. Since I joined the military I know what it’s like to sometimes be away from home for a long period of time. After a while I realized that because I been to so many places , met so many people I no longer had just one home. Home was no longer an apartment with 3 bedrooms, a living room, a kitchen and bathroom. Home started to become people rather than a place. Wherever my love ones may go that is where I’ll consider home from the day I enlisted in the Army. The warm embrace of my family along with the encouragement from my soldiers and the fun times with my friends make me who I am. Their support has driven me a long way. “Home is whenever I’m with you.”
2. Just Another Girl by The Killers
So this songs speaks about a guy who fell in love with a girl and his friends keep telling him to let go, “she’s just another girl.” Probably wondering how this could relate to me. Basically one of the things who made me who I am is an experience I had with a guy who was my best friend for so long. He fell in love with me and I didn’t feel the same. He went through a tough time trying to get over me. The chorus of the song says “Its a great big world she’ just another girl.” Made me realize that there are so many people in this world to be chasing after someone who doesn’t want you in that sense. I believe life experiences make a person. Oh, yes he’s still my best friend and slowly moving on.
3. You Found Me by The Fray
If not all , most, of us go through a point in our life where we feel lost. We don’t know who nor where to turn to. Things aren’t making sense and the one person who has known us best is no longer in our life. You feel like they don’t care anymore. No one does. Like I said life experiences make a person, even the bad ones. Warning, I’m about to get a little personal. At a point in my life I was ready to give up. I felt like I had no reason to keep walking this world. I felt like I had no one to turn to. I wanted to kill myself. I’d call it faith but when I was ready to do the deed the person came out of no where and stopped me. I didn’t know him. It got me thinking that if a stranger cared enough to save my life, I’m sure the people I love most would be devastated to hear I committed suicide. We spoke for hours. From that day on I do have my down days. However, they don’t affect me as much. I learned how to be independent and strong on my own. It’s nice to have people who help you get back up. It’s nicer when you can pick yourself up. I never did see that person again. So whoever he was I would call him an angel sent from God. Thank you kind stranger.
4.Iris by Goo Goo Dolls
This song came out in 2009 , the year when I fell in love for the first time. Yes I was young but come on? Part of who I am is a hopeless romantic. Ever since I was young I have been in love with the idea of BEING in love. Finding someone who will love me for the person I am. It’s one of my traits that I possess in which I love and hate. Although, I really don’t think I could ever get rid of it. I find something to love in every person that comes across my path in life.
5. You’re Beautiful by James Blunt
This song will forever be my favorite. I may not show it but I am an insecure person. It’s not as bad as it use to be because I learned how to have confidence in myself when I went to do my training with the Army. Yes beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Too bad I don’t care if in some ones eyes they don’t see beauty within me. I know that even with my many flaws some one out there will think I’m the most perfect person ever. I know I am beautiful in my own way. Confidence makes me who I am.
6. Be Alone by Childish Gambino
I hate the solitude. I do not like to be alone. Not so happy about the fact that I don’t really enjoy my alone time but oh well. I like being around people so I can keep distracted from my own mind. I would kill myself with my own thoughts. Overthinking is something I do so much.
7. Stronger by Kanye West
The name of the song says it all. I have been through a lot of stuff for someone whose only 19-years old. I sometimes forget I am so young and have a lot I haven’t gone through yet. More than physically I am mentally stronger now than I have ever been. Sometimes things happen and it may bring me down a bit. I don’t let it destroy me though.
8. Me, Myself and I by Beyoncé
Yes I have love ones but at the end of the day I truly feel like I’m on my own. As mentioned earlier , I am slowly getting used to that. Just because they don’t have enough time for me doesn’t mean they don’t love me. I’m old enough now to understand that. I can take care of myself, watch my own back and keep myself motivated to keep on going in life. At the end of the day I can be my own best friend or my own worst enemy.
9. Lose Control by Missy Elliott
“Music make you lose control.” Yes yes yes. I love to dance. I was in a Salsa performance team for almost a year. In 8th grade I was in a theater dance class. Since I was so small and flexible they used me for most of the cool moves. Music definitely makes me who I am. I use to be so shy , still am but I love how dancing is anything and everything.
10. Good Life by Kanye West
I am who I am because of the life I chose to live. My mom has raised me a certain way. To always do what’s right so I can avoid any kind of trouble. People can give me advice all day. It’s my choice what I want to make of it. I love my life. Every day I am learning more about myself. This song really brings a good vibe to me and even though its saying the good life is all this money, materials and girls I still believe that life is what you make of it.