0:00 – The video opens with a Title and Credits page, and continues on to show Earl energetically coaching some kids in a basketball game. It seems his team is losing.
0:25 – He gets into an argument with the referee, which distracts him from the game and causes him to miss out on the turn around point where his team starts to score. Either that, or he’s distracting the referee to give his boys the advantage, and later it shows all of them grabbing the trophy, including the referee for some reason.
0:55 – Abrupt cut scene to Earl in a minivan. Scene is quieter, energy is slowed, and Earl is grabbing his things and going home. As the Camera follows him, it pans in onto the plaster bust of a naked individual. The gender is hard to tell, but it deeply resembles Earl.
2:00 – Earl replaces the statue. A bunch of reaching, open plaster hands replace Earl. Earl and the statue are now facing each other, and he’s listening to something as he curiously looks at this bust (of possibly himself). His eyes are open, and the bust’s are closed. A necklace can be seen on it which was not there before.
2:10 The scene abruptly changes again, now to a woman staring at a really large sculpture of a vagina, while the bust of gender-neutral Earl is facing away from the camera, to the corner. The woman begins to speak to and paint the sculpture of a baby green, adding color to the lifeless white. She turns away to look again at the organ, and smoke then comes out from it (possibly signifying birth or water break?). Screen flashes red, and she is painting the baby once more.
3:00 – The baby is now alive, with green eyes being the only remnant of the mother’s paint. The surrounding is now all white, and the sculpture is no longer facing the corner, but to the camera. A statement at the top of the screen reads
“a C.D.C report issued in December 2013 found that Black fathers were the most involved with their children daily, on a number of measures, of any other group of fathers”
3:10 – The bust (which no longer has a necklace) now faces another sculpture, covered with vines, which Earl proceeds to carefully move off using plaster hands. The personal yet impersonal interaction between the two is interesting. We see that it’s not actually a sculpture, but an older man (presumably his father) painted in white. The scene then changes back to the home of the woman, where a young girl cleans the bust in the corner in the same way Earl did to the man. The bust somehow changes positions, now facing frontward, as the camera shows a different angle to the girl cleaning the statue. The scene moves back to the older man, who is now bieng cleaned by a woman in place of and resembling Earl, with his same clothes and demeanor. It shows the man being covered again, and then shows Earl, man-version, though there are no longer any vines, still touching him with the plaster hands. The position of the man does not change. The necklace worn on the statue is now on the older man’s back. It seems Earl is earnestly trying to reach him, but the barrier of the plaster hands is the only way he can, or knows how, to try.
4:25 – The bust is now in a bathroom tub being cleaned by a man, which is possibly the same one that was covered with paint. From this scene on, the necklace does not leave the bust. The scene flashes red like once before, showing Earl and his team of kids for a second, and then switches to Earl moving chairs around in a house with curtained windows. A close-up scene of a man walking takes part of the screen for a second, and then disappears, like memories that don’t know where to go. I think earl is uncomfortable, and builds a tower of couches and chairs as a response. He doesn’t know how to deal with what he feels, and his house, once a home, doesn’t feel the same. The roof is bleeding as Earl speaks, showing that he, or his home, is deeply wounded.
5:50 – Earl lays in bed, fetal position, and then gets up and smiles at a picture of a man (probably his father) and a young boy, which then shakes, falls to the ground, shatters, and is instantly sweeped away. Their relationship is somehow interrupted, and maybe Earl didn’t deal with his emotions the right way in the beginning. Earl is now in the tub, and the woman who resembles him is now cleaning him with the plaster hands. I see the woman as another side of Earl, a representation of himself without his masculinity, which is possibly what stopped him from being able to directly connect with his father. He becomes more in tune with her, as seen in the scene where they mirror eachother’s actions.
7:00 – Earl is now alone in the bathtub, with two plaster faces on either side of him, an older woman and man (mother and father?). The scene cuts to Female Earl touching Gender-Neutral Earl with plaster hands again, then back to Earl being cleaned by his father, but with his actual hands. Quick flash of red, then back to the bust, then back to Earl, now alone again. Was it a dream?
7:50 – The camera slowly moves away from an open casket covered with a South African flag, and filled with plaster hands facing down. It was the only way that he got to know his father. He never got to develop a personal relationship with him without that barrier. The video then reverses, and walks closer to the casket again, showing the hands once more. The video ends.
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Hey Yaseen
I’ve never listened to this song or seen the music video but your interpretation has really gotten me interested in this artist. I really like how the C.D.C. quote is incorporated into the music video because he’s using factual evidence to fight against the stereotype that black fathers are deadbeats who arent involved in their children’s lives.
Hey Yaseen!
At 3:00, when he talks about the report from CDC about Black fathers being present in their children’s lives, I think that he’s trying to go against the stereotypes in the Black community about Black fathers being deadbeats.
I’ve tried to uncover the hidden messages, but it’s so confusing. Especially, when he starts having a discussion with a female version of himself. Is it his way of dealing with toxic masculinity? I’m not sure. I feel like to understand this song we have to be familiar with his life, because like you’ve said he made a lot of references to his father. I’m amazed at how you were able to connect your thoughts with the music video. I doubt that I would have been able to come up with all that.
Hello Yaseen! Never heard of this song before but I have to say it’s great. At 0:25, just like you, I had two ideas in mind on what was going on with the referee. After thinking about it, I believe that Earl was distracting the ref to give his team an advantage. The scene 3:10 was very emotional when the sculpture covered with vines reminded Earl of his father because it is something relatable. I really thought about the question you had at the end of 7:00. ”Was it a dream?” I tried to come up with reasons that it was a dream, yet I am still cannot decide. Overall very great description
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Thanks Grinald! I thought it was a dream mainly because there’s no other point where they connect directly, but Earl is already a man and it showed him alone once before. I think Earl was really able to connect with his father after his death, which is why he was able to dream about him and his father no longer having the plaster barrier, but the casket still shows just plaster hands. The fact that that’s all he knew of his father while he was alive didn’t change, even though that bathtub scene should have made it otherwise.