Describe how Plato, Sappho, and/or Catullus conceive of love (and/or friendship). You can choose to only discuss one of the three works or compare two or three of them. You can also choose to compare their views on love with The Odyssey, Oedipus Rex, or Lysistrata. You can also choose to focus more specifically on either the lover or the beloved if you like.
Sappho’s poetry reveals the raw emotion and struggles of love expressed through pain, jealousy, and intense fire (passion) between the lover and the loved. Her eloquence lies in the truth and hardships of love, not just the beauty and romanticism typically alluded to in other poems. Love, for her, was a story experienced by the same sexes as well as between the sexes. Sappho’s poems introduced to her contemporaries an understanding of all relationships and the term we use today, lesbian.
Poem 94 illustrates the heartbreaking separation between two people as she begins by writing “I simply want to be dead. Weeping she left me.” Her partner, in tears, expresses how badly things have come between the both of them, leading to Sappho’s change in tone as she expresses the good and beautiful times they shared with images of woven garlands and flowers. Sappho focuses more on herself rather than her beloved in an attempt to express her deep sorrow and suffering to her lover and the reader. By expressing her emotional vulnerability, Sappho empowers women with independence. This same strength was seen in Lysistrata’s plot to end a war, using women as the negotiating tools by withholding sexual favors to evoke a truce. Her crazy scheme not only proved to be successful, but it revealed the power and influence that women share.