Mrs. Dalloway
November 4, 2014
Finished reading the Mrs. Dalloway, what interested me the most is the relationship between characters in this book and the society – what has the society done to them, and how they behave to deal with the environment they live in and people around them.
Mrs. Dalloway – or Clarissa, an upper class aged woman, seems to love socials and throws parties every now and then. But does she really enjoy them? If she is hosting the party out of her true passion, then why would Peter sense her insincere when she says “How delightful to see you!” to everybody, and why would she be worried that the party might be a failure instead of launching it with full excitement? It is not hard to see that although Clarissa enjoys privacy and her interior world, she also feels equally if not more important to communicate with others – which is why she throws those parties. This kind of community and human connection is so important to a women in her class that she has to put herself together and present to others as a remarkable woman.
As for Septimus, he locked his sole in his own world after the war, cutting up human connections and constrains of models from the society. And when Mr. Holmes came, who asks Septimus to do what he thinks Septimus should do, Septimus chooses to die rather than surrender his sole. That’s why Clarissa feels happy about him, taking it as a way for Septimus to finally communicate himself to the society. This is something Mrs. Dalloway – who married someone she has little feeling for – has never done, although they both love the life and both have a abundant interior world.
And then let’s look at Peter. He has been struggling inside for his whole life because he can’t put down his love for Clarissa, and constantly doubts about himself and his decisions. However, how does he look like in the hotel? As he walks around his room, he imagines how Daisy sees him: as a reliable man who dresses, shaves, and takes firm control of life’s small details. When he sits at the dinner table, he is so composed and orders his food firmly, even guests on other tables find him very appealing. This is how he thinks the society perceives him and how he should present to this society.
With the streams of consciousness and free indirect discourse in this book, we are able toconstantly move in and out of characters’ minds freely. This juxtaposition of internal world and external world really enables us to take a look into what’s behind ‘the cotton wool of daily life’.
November 16th, 2014 at 5:53 pm
I agree that the relationships between the characters in this book and how they are effected by society are essential to the progression of the story. It is very interesting how Mrs. Dalloway throws parties so often and it would be very common to assume that she enjoys the parties. However, by the end, as you mentioned Peter was able to see through her exterior and past the false image and get a sense of her true feelings. It is definitely true that Clarissa likes privacy, meanwhile she enjoys communicating with others as well in order to maintain connection with other people.
December 2nd, 2014 at 11:34 pm
I agree that the characters tend to bottle up their feelings, such as Peter with his feelings for Clarissa, and Clarissa for her feelings about her upper-class lifestyle. The characters end up unhappy and miserable as a result of this, wanting to share their feelings but being unable to do so because of societal restrictions.