Make sure you do this, make sure you do that. Mother is always telling me what to do. It’s like she wants to mold me into being a person who she wants me to be. I dont even do some of the things she blames me of doing. All these directions of how to do things and yet she still believes ill be that type of woman shed been trying to prevent me from becoming, a slut. I know that all she has in mind is my best interest and for me to someday be like her married and with a husband but in all honesty that is not at all what I have in mind yet. I am looking foward to not being under my mothers control any longer but in entirety I want to leave on my own terms. Who cares about what eveyone else thinks? If they believe that I am becoming a slut because my dress is too short then that just reflects off their insecurities. When I leave, it will be on my own terms and the person I decide I want to spend the rest of my life with is going to love me for who aI really am and not this programed person she is trying to create. I think that the real motive behind mothers instructions is so that I wont have to go throught her same experience, she has given me her input on life from what she has experienced and she just wants me to be ready so that when I go out into the world I am ready to find a husband and I wont be lingering around like the slut she believes im bent on becoming.