http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/06/opinion/sunday/great-betrayals.html?ref=opinion

The article raises awareness of the causes lying may have on one’s relationship. The person who told the lie feels no shame or regret because they feel that they can always have a fresh start afterwards. They can make new and better decisions the next day. The person being lied to, on the other hand, feels the opposite. They feel humiliated and embarrassed that they didn’t figure it out earlier. They tend to be more emotional than the person who told the lie because it may affect their entire life. The article reveals a story in which a son had been lied to about his race, religion, career and military records. It wasn’t until after the father’s death that the son discovers his true identity. The son’s whole life has been altered; however, it has no affect on the father because he has already passed away.  This article relate to truth and some things I came up with were this article talks about how this person who is a psychiatrist is approached is approached by a friend who tell the person about a true story about their life. In most if not all cases told to a psychiatrist are true. It is also mentioned in the article that not telling the truth could bring people to “tumultuous crises” therefore there is a lesson to be thought from this that telling the truth is a lot better then lying because the truth will always be revealed and their will be greater consequences with it. It better if u tell the truth because if u lie it leads the person to believe and starts question yours and other people future actions