Journal #3

What is a successful college student?  I am already off on a bad start with a risk of probation from the honors program.  Does this mean I am an unsuccessful college student?  I believe college is more of a bonding period in life.  Try to create strong friendships with people around you.  At first, I believed I was unsuccessful and was a little depressed about it.  But my friend in the honors lounge told me, “Come on, how are you going to tell me that one semester in your life can mess up the rest of your life?”  Then, I realized he was right.  Without his moral support, I would’ve gone on a downward spiral.  I never asked for excessive help in my life.  But now I see myself talking to teachers about my bad grades and asking peers to review my essays.  I never would’ve sought out help because of an inferiority complex I have.  “Hurt people, hurt people.”  That is the truth in life.  If something bad happens to you, you will reflect that pain on others.  But, I’ve also learned that “Helped people, help people.”  With the opportunity I have to help others in this program, I can actually indirectly help many people while I directly help a few.  My group has uncovered a program known as the Starlight Childrens’ Foundation.  I can help children cope with pain, study and interact. Regardless of the opportunity or not, I could help someone simply by listening and understanding.  Thus, creating a bond.  That’s what makes a successful college student.