English 2100 Fall 2023:  What Goes Unsaid?

Women’s Rights & Women’s Wrongs:

A few weeks ago, A lady went viral for filming a man on her first date, a man she didn’t really know simply because he took her to the cheesecake factory. She refused to get out the car and started filming their conversation about what was wrong about the restaurant. Keep in mind this is their first date, they are still getting to know each other. We find out later in the video, they were suppose to go to a fancier restaurant but the woman was an hour late getting ready so obviously they couldn’t go anymore. She claims that she didn’t think she would get out late from work. The man waited an hour for her in the car downstairs from her apartment. If this was the case, she should’ve scheduled for 5pm or another day. Instead, they BOTH settled for the cheesecake factory because they couldn’t go to the other restaurant anymore. When they arrived at the cheesecake factory she got upset because she didn’t think he would actually take her. She claims it’s a chain restaurant and they should’ve went to the fancier restaurant, but yet again she was late. The man was very kind and understanding and not aggressive at all. He even opened the door for her and she refused to get out the car because she wanted to talk about why he’s taking her there. This sparked conversation across the internet about where you should take a woman on a first date. Most of the internet made fun of the woman because she’s delusional. I also agree, because I grew not being able afford cheesecake factory. Instead I ate TGI Fridays and I thought it was the fanciest restaurant ever. This shows how different people might’ve grew up and how some women want a man to go above and beyond for them even though they again don’t each other; as the first date is suppose to help them get to know each other. Personally I would be fine with the cheesecake factory, because still I am too broke for it. I’ve never went before. This shows how some women have a different definition of the perfect first date. The internet also made a list on where you shouldn’t take a woman on the first date, yet again this list is also a bit delusional. This is an example of Women’s Wrongs.

Cheesecake factory Lady Original Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8BThwsY/

The Internets List:

The internets list

My Personal List:

My list