First of all, I don’t disagree with Freud’s thinking. According to my memories, I did not compare my parents to other parents. I didn’t hate my father even if I liked more my mother than him. (I am sorry dad. I still love more my mother than you) Also, I didn’t see my older brother as an enemy to get more affection from parents. I think it depends on how family treats each other. My parents tried to be fair between me and my brother. Sometimes my brother had a priority. Sometimes I got a chance to do something first. They told us, “we should love each other because you are brother and people who you absolutely believe in the world. Also, you will be the only family after parents gone.” I love my father, my mother, and my brother. I know my mother is a beautiful, strong, lovely, wise, and kind person. I can say that due to not she is my mother, but many people admit it. I still think like I should find my girl like my mother. My point is that I didn’t think like I had my mother’s love to myself from my father and my brother. When I was so young, my brother took care of me like parents. He gave up a lot for me. That’s why I would not be jealous of anyone among my family. I received enough loves from my family. One of the sentences I like is “The important things was to love rather than to be loved.” I absolutely agree on it. All my family already knew this meaning. Freud’s thinking is based on the only point of view of one person. It might be “selfish.” Don’t think about only yourself among the most beloved people in the world.