In contrary to the majority of belief here on the blog, I actually think that the orientation was somewhat of a reality check for some, or at least for me. To those who didn’t concentrate on what this boring, monotone professor said, he juxtaposed the happiness and purpose of life to helping those in need. He explained that bring purpose to other people’s life and being a good person gives satisfaction and significance to your own life. One of the biggest topics he brought up was that of the mid-life crisis, when one reevaluates their life and tries to find some sort of meaning or connection between their actions, their morals, and the significance and purpose of their life.
Now this orientation lead to a revelation I had later on, on a Friday night. I wont get into details as to how this revelation occurred, but I’d like to try and share it with the class. The revelation I had was no different than all the other thoughts one might have, with the exception that it was multiplied by a thousand. I realized that in society, everyone aims to be successful, whether it is influenced by their parents, or by their own motivations and ambitions, everyone wishes to be successful. In this day and age, certification is on everyone’s high list and so, teenagers and young adults rush into majors and areas of study that they later find they aren’t interested in. In the midst of this, some realize that it was only money that was the driving force behind their decisions. In the madness of things in modern society, one must reevaluate themselves before making decisions. Has there ever been a time when you truly sat down and just reflected on your purpose in life?
I’m convinced that I know my life’s purpose. I love to aid people in health recovery and physical development. As a certified lifeguard, CPR/WED user, and Water Safety Instructor, my life’s work centers around keeping others safe and secure, while teaching others a vital survival skill in life. I’m also a personal trainer for a few people, I like nothing more than to help those in need. I enjoy giving my time to people; time being the most valuable thing you can give anybody. I give purpose to my life, when I give purpose to other people’s lives. I truly think that is the best way to live.
I believe that in life, its best to live according to your own virtues, beliefs, and morals. Be kind to others, for they well be kind to you. The purpose of life is not find your purpose but tot make your purpose, no matter what. The task of finding this purpose is open ended, but a continual effort to do so can and will ultimately lead to your own happiness.
It is up to the individual to create their own happiness, and the best way to do this is to live in accordance with some religion, but more importantly, one’s own beliefs, ideals, morals, ambitions, and feelings, with a little mindfulness towards others.