This picture pretty much sums up my time at Baruch so far. The only adjustment I would make to it is for me I would need a rectangle instead of a triangle, my fourth point being work. I think its very hard to balance all four of these, work, good grades, enough sleep, and a social life. Most nights I go home and do homework and study until 11 and I go to sleep whether I’m done or not, because if I don’t then I don’t get enough sleep and I wont be able to function the next day. Most mornings I get up at either 6:20 or 7:30 depending on class times, and I am out of my house within 40 minutes.
I used to work 4 days a week, 35 hours, but with my school load I cut down my days to only 3. I no longer work on a Monday, because I would get home at 10 o’clock and then have no time for studying or homework.
I definitely do not get enough sleep during the week which is why on a Friday I sleep around 12 hours to make up for the rest of the week. Friday is my only day to sleep in, because I work 6-3 on a Saturday and 12-9 on a Sunday. Naps are what gets me through my Mondays and Saturdays.
Good grades so far haven’t been as much of an issue as the other 3, because this is where I spend so much of my time. I spend around 35 hours doing homework and studying including club hours at school. Club hours on a Tuesday and a Thursday are where I get most of my work done, its actually where I am typing this. I feel like utilizing your time wisely is a main thing that will help you in college. College is such a big transition for me, because in high school I did no work or studying and I had a straight 94 average. Now I have to work for my grades, which isn’t a bad thing just something I need to get used to.
I don’t have any where near the social life I used to have in high school. I barely see my friends, for two reasons. One being that one friend is in school in Florida and the other being that there just simply isn’t enough hours in a day with school and work. I see my boyfriend 3 times a week, one day at work and one night is for studying/homework purposes. So basically my social life consists of 2 nights Friday and Saturday after work. My best friend and I made a pact to go on a double date every other month so we could catch up, not seeing her is hard but we constantly text and send each other pictures of ourselves with silly quotes and sayings.
College has been a big adjustment for me, but it’s something that I can handle. The people in my life are what help me get through the days that I want to give up. In my life I don’t necessarily think that I have to pick only 2 points, but i do think I can’t focus on each as much as I used to.