“I used to call it sex, but Gideon said I might as well call it rape.”
– “Gideon” by ZZ Packer
This quote is used in ZZ Packer’s short story, Gideon. This quote is very powerful because it describes and depicts the emotions each person had for each other in their relationship. We see that the narrator considers the act of sex as just sex. When the narrator uses this term with Gideon, Gideon becomes frustrated and tells the narrator that she should stop calling sex, sex, and instead, she should start calling it rape. We see Gideon using a different phrase for “sex”. Gideon tells the narrator that they are not just having sex, instead they are “making love”. This shows a huge difference in emotional feelings from both parties to one another.
Later on, we read that while the narrator and Gideon were “making love,” the condom broke during their act of intercourse. Gideon got very angry and threw the condom on the wall while shouting “Fucking Freestyles! Who the hell buys fucking Freestyles!” In my opinion, I believe that Gideon should not have been angry at all. He claims that when he has intercourse with the narrator, they are “making love” and there is no reason to be mad at your partner after the two have made love. In today’s world, Gideon could just take the narrator to the pharmacy and make sure she does not have this baby. On another word, if Gideon actually wanted to make true love to his girlfriend, why would he need a condom? If he actually loved the narrator, I believe that Gideon would not freak out over one simple broken condom. I think that Gideon contradicts himself when he claims that he and the narrator make love, and then he gets pissed off over one broken condom.