The journey of life is perhaps the most unexpected or unpredictable series of paths that life can provide. Sometimes the paths we select are wrong and they take us down a road of regrets, worst of all failure. Other times we succeed, but the success comes from the hope that we receive during our moment of failure. In that moment we learn that any personâÂÂs day or frown could be turned around. Instead of us feeling scared and threatened by our mistakes we realize that there is a bigger lesson to be learned. The lesson to be learned is that darkness has no answers. Darkness makes it impossible for you to see which way is left, which way right, which way is up, which way is down, and most of all what is erroneous and what is precise. Your only answer is light. At times it is hard for us to see the light once we are deep within the darkness but you have to believe in yourself more then you did or will in order to see your true path in the journey of life.
From the moment you are born to the moment you die, life throws obstacles; occasionally these obstacles leave you in a stage of confusion and self doubt. However, obstacles can prepare you for the superior and the dreadful moments in life. Every now and then you have to keep in mind that courage is the most powerful tool towards the insecurities and the ignorance that an individual might face. Maya Angelou once said, âÂÂOne isnâÂÂt necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We canâÂÂt be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest.â In my personal moments of darkness this wonderful quote by this wonderful person has given me hope. It showed me that every person is capable of exceeding excellence.
Although in order to exceed excellence you must believe in the greatness that you have within yourself. The inspiring quotes like the one of Maya Angelou did give me hope, that hope helped me get through some though days. However in spite of all the hope, there are times in my life where I find it hard to believe in myself. The majority of time that I felt this way was because of people and pressure. The moments in which I didnâÂÂt believe in myself were mainly because of people who do not consider happiness as a form of living. These people only admire hate, jealousy, and pain. Hateful people only go after one thing and that is to make others feel less of themselves, these individuals want their victims to feel as if they are not worthy. These individuals criticize you on your flaws and on the things that make you different. However to all the people who feel unworthy, believe me when I tell you your flaws or whatever makes you different is nothing to be ashamed of. In matter of fact, you should be blissful about your flaws because they are a part of who you are and what makes you unique. Sometimes people see different and think itâÂÂs a bad thing, but itâÂÂs not, if anybody is willing to be your friend, or be your love interest, they are going to be with you for the things that make you unique.
If any person that you know is making you feel worthless or is saying things that make you feel insecure, I would advise that you ditch this person before they ditch you and leave you with the pain in your heart or that sudden feeling of emptiness in your soul. This person could be a friend, a love interest, or sometimes even a family member, it hurts to leave behind the person that erases your empty days on a calendar but you have to consider that it’s your feelings that are on the line, it is your feelings that are being played with. Some people stick with what they have because they feel that there is no one else, other times people feel that it is easier to be with someone thatâÂÂs ok rather than search for better because theyâÂÂre afraid that if they donâÂÂt find it theyâÂÂll be left with nothing but themselves. This could be an opinion or a fact but it is said that the only thing harder than being in a relationship is being alone.