Small Things Add Up

The most important advice from the documentary is that the quickest moments of overlooking something becomes our longest moments of ignorance. But we do it now because we simply cannot avoid it.

Once we realize how risky it is to put our information out there, we finally would “skim” the privacy policies and terms & conditions. At least I do. But now there’s a condition that we do not agree to. If we don’t like it, we don’t register or sign up for whatever it is we are supposed to agree to. So in the end we are forced to make a sacrifice that benefits the company first.

Power in the end comes from the people who are lobbying the government at their doorsteps (Terms and Conditions May Apply, 21:00-21:19). Unfortunately these lobbyists are companies and their representatives: high and mighty, rich and powerful. A normal voice doesn’t stand a chance. That is how the system works. Money influences power, power influences the people, and more inbetween causing a big interconnected web. An ideology comes into place, telling us that this invasion of privacy is not meant to frighten you until it should. Also that your privacy is secure until it is questioned. Like from chapter 9 of Digital Media and Society “Not all political ideologies are economic in their logic, but many of the most important ideologies of the modern world (capitalism, communism, socialism) are explicitly economic in form. (Athique, p.127)”

The fact that Facebook, the site I use every single day, can betray someone with sneakily changing the privacy policy overtime frightens me yet makes me indifferent. That in itself is to be feared.

The idea that companies can create ways to make people skim over the terms and conditions, and privacy policies, like using all capitalized font with a small sized print, shocks me yet makes me feel like “I’m not surprised.” That is something to consider, on how our ideologies make us react to these things.

The idea that hitting the delete button only deletes it from yourself, but a government or company can still go back to retrieve what you delete is secretive and deceiving, but I don’t doubt that it happens nor do I doubt that it will continue happening. That makes me feel like we shouldn’t touch technology anymore. Nor should we use our credit cards,

Also as a bonus, Barack Obama is a prime example of the ideology that we sort of “brush off” these privacy issues. The documentary mentions how he doesn’t stop wiretapping programs from occurring nor did he stop them during his presidency. Politifact wrote a piece on this issue and I quote “We don’t expect the president to give the American people every detail about a classified surveillance program. But we do expect him to place such a program within the rule of law…” But now that he’s out of office, I don’t expect anything good coming from our new president.

So a few things to consider:

  1. Why are we offended when people/companies sell our information to third parties? When they would do it under our noses anyways.
  2. Why isn’t anything changing now that we know the government and companies can betray us at anytime?

Why Privacy No Longer Exists

 

Face it we’ve all been there. We sign up for a new social media site, maybe even filled out a job application or applied for a contest online and there comes that little box at the end. The terms and conditions are right there; sometimes you have to at least scroll down before you sign but most times you can easily just check that box saying that you read it and go about your day. But are we actually considering just exactly are in those terms and conditions and what rights we are giving away?

 

The tricky thing about the terms and conditions is that more often than not, we are consenting tho things we should probably know about. According to this article on Thrillist; some of the most popular sites have hidden clauses in their terms. For example, ITunes states that you do not actually own any of the music you buy and sites such as Twitter, Instagram and Facebook own rights to the content you post.

 

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In the documentary “Terms and Conditions may Apply” I was intrigued by all the facts that I learned before that I never even considered. One thing I was shocked to hear is that if the average person actually read the terms and conditions they agreed to over a year it would take approximately a month to read. Could you imagine spending a month reading the terms and conditions for everything you agree to online? This makes it seem that they make these documents univiting to the average reader on purpose, because they are including things they do not everyone to be aware of.

Another fact I discovered was that phone companies have assisted the government in the past with wiretapping. This has always been a big controversy because many people are opposed to the idea of wiretapping in general. They see it as an invasion of your constitutional rights to have the government giving access to your private conversations. Before this documentary I assumed the government was able to access this information on their own. Now I understand that when we sign up for these phone plans and with these companies the terms and conditions most likely include that they they will possibly give up our information and we have already consented.

Shockingly, media sites like Facebook actually has bigger data files on people than any government agency. While the government has to research and build cases on people they seek out, Facebook on the other hand have people eagerly signing up to provide information to them for free. Facebook also changed their policies so that even if you delete information or your profile they will store your information FOREVER.

 

Questions:

Do you believe we should be compensated for our social media posts and profiles? If so, to what degree or level?

Wiretapping plays a huge part in this debate because people believe it is a violation of our privacy and/or rights/ Do you agree or disagree with the concept that “if you have nothing to hide, you shouldn’t be worried”?

I was too naive.

Okay, so at first, I was confused that Toy Smart company sold their customer’s personal information when they declared bankruptcy. They’ve stated that they would never share information under any circumstance according to their policy. It was irritating and foreshadowed danger that personal information provided for any company would not be in  a safe place.

As shown in the video, all of the activities people conduct on their iphones can be used as resources for companies and even the government. Looking at Robert (director of FBI) who shook hands with Mark Zuckerberg appreciating his genius idea of having people post their personal information which could be extracted by the FBI.

Maybe I was a person who was so naïve to be part of the digital society. Before taking this class, I was not aware of how much  surveillance we were under. Sharing of ideas, photos, daily activities through Facebook and Instagram could be monitored by the FBI, NSA, or AOL.

The most shocking scene in the video was when three people shared their consequences of sharing violent thoughts on their social media. How are people suppose to be aware of the fact that joking around with bad words on tweeters or Facebook would trigger a warning and involve the FBI to inspect their house and designating them as “potential criminals”

In addition, when it was said that “ data” can be deleted from the site but not actually gone, I was in shock becaus I recalled all the embarassing photos I’ve tagged myself in. I had intended to delete them but those would be deleted completely . I also remembered some comments and posts that I wrote when I was young without much thought.

Shockingly, the attitude that Mark Zuckerberg shows on the video seems to reflect an irresponsible attitute towards protecting his users. He was saying the users feel free to post their information because they trust him. Are we part of a cult made by Mark Zuckerberg in which we are willing to sacrifice our privacy and dedicate our personal information?. As stated in the reading, commercial entities like Facebook exploits users personal information without effort and at the same time monitors, records, aggregates, stores, and are sorted(284, Andrejevic). How could he as CEO of Facebook who has over 1 billion users speak in such way even if it was a joke, ignoring that the information is monitored and abused for commercials or government surveillance?

As the kid in the video, people create an account on social media as a platform to freely express themselves. We live in a world dominated by democracy and have the  right to freely  speak up and share our ideas. However, as  they speak up, they are being “red flagged” and are being inspected and categorized as “potential criminals” sometimes ruining one’s vacation. It completely goes well with Lessig’s statement that “cyberspace is a perfect tool of control” First,  it aroused as an icon for freedom; however, taking a closer look, the digital society is well constructed in a way that government would be monitoring and ringing the alarm for the police to come to the door. Thus, in my respect, I see the power distribution is set by government which is at the highest rank then the companies are helping the government to gather data, and we are molecules living in a controlled society.

 

  1. Most of the time, we do not read “term of conditions” which we have to, how should we raise awareness of the importance of reading?
  2. Digital society has spread and developed exponentially; however, people are not aware of the level of exposure of privacy. What are suggestions would you make for change?

Privacy is dead – Leon E

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I will be honest. I feel under surveillance. The documentary makes me think deeply about the way I am using technology. Well, not only me but society. There were many times I was shocked and scared and I will tell you some of those moments.  I feel over watched  by the government 24/7. Now that I am writing this blog, and from the moment I was watching the documentary I started thinking that my data is collected and can be used anytime by third parties. One of the speakers in the documentary says “be careful with  your posts on social media.” Our society nowadays share everything on social media platforms, follow people, brands, write thoughts and jokes, and make business as well. In other words social media and internet are our primary tool of everyday communication. There is nothing negative about it. Which it is negative is that what you share can be considered harmful or inappropriate for the government. In other words, we all need to think twice before we share on social media platforms if we do not want to catch the attention of the security agency and they get in trouble.A second point that shocks me is the power a company has over users when we agree on their terms and conditions. It is unbelievable the way users accept to share all personal information without knowledge of all the consequences it can bring. It is true that the terms and conditions section is long and sometimes boring to read. But, it is essential to know what we are accepting to. If later we get in trouble for a post, or one of our pictures  is used by a third party we cannot complain about it because all these actions are legal since we accepted the conditions. Did everyone knows it? Maybe not, because not many people ready terms and conditions.  The third point that catch my attention is that nothing is free. As one of the speaker in the documentary says and we have discussed in class. We all like to get free things, free service, internet, food, and more. But, have we stopped and think what is it the real cost of these “free” things? The answer is the exchange of our privacy. One example is Google service “in return for free wireless access, Google announced its plans to use the information it gathered about users’ locations within the city to bombard them with time- and location-specific ads, or what it calls “contextual advertising” (Andrejevic,1). In other words when we get “free Wi-F” we all are allowing google to get our personal information and use it as they need. Due to this exchange of services we are bombarded with advertising, and allow surveillance programs to have power on us.

Based on this documentary and discussions in class I believe Federal Government has power over everything and everyone in this society. Federal Government controls each movement we do and enforce services such as google or Facebook to retain information of their users. Which it is shocks me because there is no privacy since our personal information can be shared when it is necessary. NSA National Security Agency has access to all American communication such as: phone-calls, and everything is recorded. Ex President Obama says “Surveillance company is consider as a program from national security.”  From my point, the relationship between economic system and the system of government control is that both entities have a huge power and work together. Facebook, google and other platforms are spies in order to give information to the American government. The majority of police department track social media for criminal investigations. These different powers of control, spies activities, and surveillance programs affects people freedom of speech. For example, people who are afraid of government because it is monitoring their messages are more likely to create other accounts, and do not share everything they think about specific topics such as political and social issues. Although one of the purposes of surveillance programs is to prevent terrorist attacks, when those laws are created should be developed and applied with safeguards that do not eliminate our freedom of speech. Is there any way to prevent sharing our information? Well, I do not think so since the society we live in is controlled by technology. For example, the way we do business has changed and one of the biggest examples is the platform eBay. This platform allows people to buy and sell goods. “eBay is a ‘free market’ that allows individuals and small traders to compete effectively with larger companies” (Athique, 214). As a consumer this is a great opportunity to buy anything we want from our house, whenever we want it. But, let’s think deeply. When we use an app or a webpage to buy or do a research our personal information such as names, address, and credit card numbers is saved and shared with either the government or other third parties. I do not see a way we can have to avoid sharing information.

In other words privacy is dead.

I will leave you a reading which I found interesting about actions that the Government is taking about post on social media platforms. The reading is from The Intercept (source)  The U.S. Government Wants to Read Travelers’ Tweets Before Letting Them In

Questions:

  1. Do you think people have lost their freedom speech due to surveillance activities? If so, how?
  2. In the last couple of month immigration officers are more strict with tourists. An example of this is a friend of mine who came from Ecuador for vacations and was took his phone away to be searched. He mentioned that the officer started looking for keywords such as “work” in his conversation history in order to make sure he is not staying as undocumented. Have you heard another story like this where our privacy is violated.  What do you think about the last incidents related with post on social media?

Get Out

Get Out

Between Instagram, Facebook and Google even when I’m looking for something I’m still looking. I’ve been wanting to purchase a new pair of glasses so while on my train ride I scrolled through Zennioptical.com to see what sparked my interest. I’m too paranoid about identity theft to purchase anything online under transit wifi. By the time I got to work I had forgotten about my eyeglasses purchase and got caught up in research for my homework. But as I’m reading articles on the founding fathers of psychology, ads for Zenni optical keep appearing in the sidebars of the websites I’m on. It doesn’t take a lot to know that as a consumer I am being watched, it is no coincidence that I’m searching for something on my phone and later on I see pop ups of it on my laptop.

“We know in general terms that we’re being monitored, but we are far from having a sense of how extensive, detailed, and sophisticated the monitoring system has become (Andrejevic, p. 9).”

The idea of an electronic panoptic as described by Foucault says that not only are we being surveilled by the state but also by those around us. In today’s society, everyone knows they are being surveilled but like Andrejevic says, to what extent it unknown. We are being watched for information into our lives, for the state to maintain control over society.

“He is seen, but he does not see; he is an object of information, never a subject in communication.”

Knowing that you are being surveilled puts you in a position to do the right thing in fear of the criticism and punishment you may receive. Surveillance does monitor and perhaps, reduce, the amount of crime and illegal things that people do. In my experience, I have been fearful of doing things like using illegal websites to watch movies or tv shows, especially since a friend of mine has gotten in trouble for that very thing. One of my friends shared with a story of how his Internet was shut down, without his awareness, for illegally streaming movies. I may not be learning from my own mistakes, but something happening so close to home, make me not want to make those mistakes at all.

Questions:

  1. Do you think the problem lies in peoples inability to do right without fear of being surveilled? If society was able to function properly, would surveillance be necessary?
  2. With algorithms being as advanced as they are now, is there any possible way to steer away from being surveilled?

Awareness is a Major Key

Being a student in a Digital Communications class has raised so many questions my presence in the digital world. Before this semester, I didn’t think much of it – being on social media platforms is a standard past time for the average teenager. I’m not consciously thinking about my digital identity or which of the several different personas I have when I am scrolling through Facebook, Instagram, or Snapchat.

I was so naive then.

Enlightenment

 

It is like I have awoken from a slumber, and my digital communications class has woken me up. I am more aware about the media, digital authorities, and my own digital identity. I am aware that when certain sites label their services as “free”, you’re actually paying with your personal information. It begs the question: Do I want to give my private information to corporations? For instance, Spotify uses every song you listen to, every repeat, shuffle, and skip, as a metric for information. This information is incredibly valuable in the music industry. It’s like currency to them. The same goes for Facebook, Youtube, and Google. I use each of these platforms on a daily basis for hours on end, and the personal information I pay in exchange for their “free” services are my age, location, interests, and preferences. It goes even deeper that: my political views, my sexuality, my relationships, and more. So do I really want to give this information to third parties? My answer is: of course. As long as they are doing me a service and increasing the quality of their platform for my benefit, I am happy to give out my information. It’s not like I have anything to hide. “The gathering of consumer data is the means by which the market is able to discern from the personal desires and the tastes of consumers and cater to them more efficiently” (217). Spotify creates increasingly intuitive playlists that I enjoy listening to, and it would not have happened unless they knew more about me.

Forget the public executions and Foucault’s panopticon prison. The strongly form of disciplinary power in our current generation is FOMO – the fear of missing out. As a capitalist nation, we live in a consumerist society. We are always thinking about joining the latest thing and being a part of the latest trend, and those who do not have “it” are simply not part of the community. If you do not have the latest Adidas Hyperboost shoes or the latest iPhone, you’ll be seen as an outcast of today’s culture. “The culture of ‘self-disclosure’ via social networking has proved to be a useful arena for gathering evidence. British police forces sift through Facebook content for evidence of criminal behavior” (224). We’ve given into a consumerist culture, and we’ve given these entities the permission to take a sneak peek on our personal lives. Knowing this, I believe that this will discourage the general populace from doing illegal activities to an extent. I am discouraged from putting in wrong information or even other people’s information because I know there is a chance that government entities might cross reference me. Illegal activities like illegal downloading or streaming are still at large because most of us do not see what’s wrong with it.

 

Questions:

How do you feel knowing that you are giving up your personal information to subscribe to these “free” platforms?

How can we take measures to ensure the safety and use of our personal information?

Is Your Digital Footprint Worth a Concern?

Digital surveillance is increasingly becoming a double-edged watchdog. To some people, digital monitoring is derailing their privacy, however, to some, digital surveillance is apt in our digital times. Nevertheless, our continued use of the digital media is gradually becoming a source of tracking our every move. Our personal information is being trapped in the digital corridors as we leave behind many digital footprints that can be used to “unravel” us. From Chapter Seven, Athique posits that “In the context of SnS private individuals seeking to serve both audiences simultaneously must take great care of their self-presentation of their public figures” ( Pg,104). Our inevitable digital media consumption is undoubtedly enough to leave behind traces of our personal information. Imagine of the vast personal information we leave behind in the form of comments, posts, tweets, status update, likes, videos, memes, and pictures, all over on Snapchat, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, and  App use. All these can communicate our personal information such as our names, gender, date of birth, health status, employment, marital status, education history and even our           finances.

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            Our interactive era has become a perfect avenue for market processing, as market surveillance is increasingly becoming popular in the twenty-first century. However, market surveillance is causing uproar in public regarding the extent it is acceptable for the “consumer profile” to be collected and stored for future use by third parties.  Firms are understood under the concept of market surveillance to be storing the personal data of their customers to better understand them and address their needs. However, the collection and storage of such pertinent information are raising issues to do with privacy. My “consumer profile” can be collated and stored for future use by the third parties in the move to advance consumer choices through an innovative creation of consumer goods that address individual needs and what can be improved in promoting user product loyalty. However, the collection and storage of my “consumer profile” for future use by third parties should not breach my rights to privacy and security. According to Turkle, digital liberation allows people to become multidimensional beings, something more than physical selves (page 127). Nevertheless, my “consumer profile” should be protected to promote consumer confidentiality.

            The state surveillance is gradually turning out as a “disciplinary society” that seeks to instil discipline in the usage of digital media and punish acts that are perceived uncouth.  However, the increased discretion by the state in acting as a prison for its people by curtailing their internet freedom of expression and opinion, and privacy is a matter of concern. However, as much as the state surveillance may try to exercise its disciplinary power, the existence of an “electronic panopticon” is not sufficient enough to reduce the likelihood of crimes and misdemeanors. Nevertheless, the state surveillance to some extent is called for when internet users have to act within the preset laws governing internet use. Personally, I believe that having the knowledge of state surveillance at the back of your mind regarding something tracking your digital movement can deter crime and misdemeanor but equally curtail your freedom of expression and privacy. We should all understand that in as much as freedom is good but an unregulated freedom is dangerous as well. For that case, in as much state surveillance can be construed as a violation of our internet freedom and privacy but to some extent, it can be important in keeping “illegal “activities such as piracy and illegal downloading on the check.

Questions

  1. Are you always aware of your digital footprints while using digital media?
  2. Is state surveillance justified under the right to freedom of expression and privacy of its citizens?

Social Media– From an Adult Point of View

For this interview, I interviewed my dad who is a professional in digital media and advertising.

Olivia: So, what social media platforms do you use?

Dad: I use Facebook obviously but I am new to Instagram and Snapchat. I also use Skype to conduct interviews and Whatsapp to communicate with my international offices.

Olivia: So for the most part, you are using most of these platforms for business purposes.

Dad: Well not exactly, I am new to Instagram but that’s mostly because you always rave about how its your favorite but I now see how easy it is to promote yourself and products. Even restaurants use Instagram.

Olivia: Yeah, I told you that’s how I find some of the trendy spots across Manhattan! Through Instagram. Anyways, would you use a name other than your own for any of your accounts?

Dad: Well, I don’t see why I would unless I am personally running an account for a company or business. Otherwise, what is the point of creating a fake name?

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This was just a small portion of our brief interview but it was interesting to see a professional adults standpoint on social media. I also find it interesting for someone to be so new to these social media platforms because for us, it is second nature. Everyday my dad comes to me with new questions about Snapchat and Instagram and how they are used to promote yourself and products, restaurants, travel destinations, etc. For him, it is a whole new world of vast opportunity.

On the other side, he doesn’t understand why people would create fake internet personas. He asked me “well isn’t that how people get catfished?”— exactly. I myself don’t understand why anyone would create a fake name on social media unless they are personally running an account for a company or a brand.

We both believe that many people create fake lives on Instagram. They show only their best times and best looks but the problem with that is it makes many people believe that they too should be living this extravagant life but in reality, its actually fake. Turkle speaks to this idea in her article “We have used our relationships with technology to reflect on the human (Turkle pg. 24).” Much of the time, we are reflecting on people who are promoting themselves through an exaggerated form making their lives look much happier and more extravagant than they actually are.

So my questions are ultimately:

Do you believe social media has a negative effect on our emotions when people are creating these false images of happiness and extravagence?

I Like Likes

For this blog I interviewed my friend Anna. Following is the transcript:

S: Hi Anna, can you share with me a bit about the social media platforms and apps you’ve used in the past?

A: Sure, I started using social media when MySpace was around, so I’d say somewhere around 2002. That didn’t last long. Then I switched over to Facebook and created accounts on Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter.I also have apps like Shazam, FX and Netflix which I use to watch movies and TV shows on my long commute to and from home.

S: So.. on these platforms, do you use your real name or do you use aliases? And if you do, tell me why?

A: Yes, I did have an alias. The reason being I was too young and my parents didn’t want us to use our real names for safety reasons. Now I have my real name on some accounts and keep some accounts unidentifiable. I also disable the function which allows people to Google me.

S: Can you elaborate how you use each of these platforms? Do you portray the same persona or are they different?

A: I use Facebook for sharing articles I think are interesting. Share some of my thoughts but nothing too personal on there. Although I have a twitter account I don’t like using it because I haven’t found it to be an effective way to communicate for me. I use Instagram as a platform for creativity, to share pictures of art that I like and some of my music. Typically I’m more shy in real life but on Instagram I feel like I can express my personality. You wouldn’t see that side of me in real life. I don’t like talking about me.

S: Do the digital personas they construct help them cope with the problems they face or do they create new problems? In what ways?

A: For me, I don’t see social media as a way to cope with problems. As far as the issue of creating problems goes. In some ways it’s disconcerting to know that people are looking into my life. On one hand you may seem fine but you may be far from fine. Everyone seems fake and it seems like everybody’s lying.

 “You can’t hug a like and a like won’t  put its arm around you when the cold wind blows”

The above video had nothing to do with the topic, its sole purpose was to entertain you.

I really do like likes.. and as funny as it may seem, i think it’s pretty sad that a lot of us are so sucked into the web version of ourselves that we don’t know how to be in the present anymore. Our interactions with people right in front of us has become a virtual interaction where the body is present but the mind is elsewhere. Conducting the interview gave me a different perspective of how people reveal different facets of their personalities. The person we may meet in real life could be a totally different person than expected.

Hearing Anna talk about her online presence made me think of an idea mentioned in Athique’s Chapter 7 ” We continuously adopt different roles to adopt different social contexts during our social lives” (Goffman,pg 99)

Anna’s interaction over Facebook was merely from a thought sharing platform, whereas her instagram feed was a more intimate part of who she is. Another friend of mine is a world class texter but in real life, his experience is a lot stressful. In his case the phone acts as an extension of self, kind of like a cocoon that protects our vulnerability.

Over the years I’ve been really amazed by the interactions on Facebook. People that you barely know might pop up and try to give you unsolicited advise. Anna briefly shares how vulnerable she feels knowing that a random person could be viewing her without her knowledge.  As shared by Athique in Chapter 7, “In the context of SnS private individuals seeking to serve both audiences simultaneously must take great care of their self presentation of their public figures” ( Pg,104) Its evident that nobody likes their lives to be on public display.

My question to you is:

1)How much of yourself, your ideas and thoughts are you open to reveal on social media?

2) When have you felt the most connected to another human, was it online or in person?

Social Media – Good or Bad?

For this interview, I decided to interview my 23-year-old sister, Fiona Chen.

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What social media platforms and apps have you used now and in the past? 

Well, the very first social media platform out there was back in the early 2000s. I think it was called Xanga. It was the simplest form of social media – its a blog to write how you felt and post status updates, with a large picture of your favorite thing in the background to show off how cool you were. I also remember using AIM (AOL Instant Messenger) haha. Those were the good old days. Nowadays, people use Snapchat, Instagram, and Facebook. I’ve recently deactivated all of my accounts because i thought they were a little to time-consuming.

Do you use their real name(s)? Have you ever used aliases or created fake accounts? 

On Facebook my name was Fiona Blank. I did this because I didn’t want future employers and family members to know what I was up to. It’s weird, you know? So I just changed my last name.

What different personas do you construct in each of these platforms and how do you relate to aspects of your experiences in life?

I don’t think I created different personas, but I did have different groups of friends in different platforms. What I do on WhatsApp is very different from what I do on Snapchat. I use WhatsApp to keep in touch with our aunts and uncles, but I use SnapChat to send funny pictures to you and Cassidy (our sister). And then in college, I used LinkedIn to network with professionals and find internships. Each platform presented a different side, so in a way I did have different personas.

Do the digital personas you construct help them cope with the problems you face or does it create new problems? In what ways?

Social media has a highlight reel. You always put the best of the best, and it’s an unrealistic image of yourself. I’m aware of this, but a lot of people need the validation of being at the coolest spot or doing the coolest things. I have never faced this problem, but it could be troublesome to children/teens who are developing social skills.

 

I always love the opportunity to pick my sister’s brain. Her comments on this interview showed a side of social media platforms that I did not even know!  I never realized how detrimental social media could be, especially for developing teens. Anthique says it best in the textbook when it says, “Whilst this public narcissism is certainly redolent of the generic celebrity culture of the mainstream American media, the intimacy and informality associated with peer friendships also make Facebook performances highly distinctive in nature.” (104) Apparently, we have become programmed to have the attention drawn to you through several different social media platforms. It certainly does not help when you get bombarded with different forms of beauty images and other societal norms. And that got me thinking: To label myself as what Anthique describes as “narcisstic” is a stretch. I’ve never felt pressured to carry myself in different personas, but perhaps I have subconsciously created problems of my own by being on Facebook and Instagram everyday. Constantly being exposed to social media may cause problems to young adults who have low self-esteem. They may find it as a way to escape. As Turkle writes, “From my earliest effort to construct an online persona, it occurred to me that being a virtual man might be more comfortable than being a virtual woman.” I’ve never heard of a case as severe as this one, but like my sister mentioned, people do need to feel validated sometimes and social media does not help at all.

QUESTIONS:

  1. Do you ever feel the need to be validated on your social media platforms? If so, to what extent?
  2. Like my sister, would you consider removing yourself away from social media?