I’ve always remembered learning about metaphors and similes in my English classes in elementary school. It was always taught in a way that made it feel detached from my daily and ordinary language. We would learn what a metaphor is and how it is used, and how it is different from what a simile is and how a simile is used. We would then be instructed to spot these ‘poetic devices’ in sentences, or even to deliberately create our own. After reading the few chapters of Metaphors We Live By, by George Lakoff and Mark Johnson, I realized how, in fact, ordinary and common metaphors are in our every day conversations. It is used so regularly, that I almost can’t imagine what it would be like not to use them. Lakoff and Johnson go even further to point out that metaphors are “pervasive in everyday life, not just in language but in thought and action”. We even THINK metaphorically, most of the times without being aware of doing so (which is why the authors make note that metaphor can be defined more precisely as metaphorical concept, because they are conceptualized in our minds before being put into words)! It feels as though metaphors were “built in” to our language– no pun intended!
I felt especially connected to when the authors spoke about the two ways to view an “opponent” in an argument; as merely an arguer or as someone who is willing to give you his time. The authors shed positivity unto what otherwise may be viewed as an egotistical objective. This type of beneficial doubt is what I strive for in my life, so I was pleasantly surprised to read it in this short reading!!
It’s interesting how you mentioned that we were “supposedly” taught the functions of metaphors and similes in school; but in reality we’ve never been shown the importance of metaphors. As you state these metaphors are literally “built into our language,” and define the way we look and talk about certain things. Something with such significance in our lives should be taught at earlier stages in our education. It’s eye opening to see how metaphorical concepts could have such power. I was also curious why you considered one way of looking at an “opponent” as an “egotistical objective.”
Before reading this piece, I also felt that metaphors were so detached from our everyday language. It felt unfamiliar, it seemed like it was only used by famous poets and renowned journalists. The way instructors teach us about metaphors in school as literary devices, distracts us from what metaphors truly are. Just like you stated “metaphor can be defined more precisely as metaphorical concept, because they are conceptualized in our minds before being put into words.” I questioned when you wrote that metaphors are “built in” to our language. Are metaphors built into our language? Or are they built into our minds?