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Final Project Ideas

Adoption

Do children who are adopted at an older age feel more displaced than children who are adopted at a younger age or as infants? Does race and culture have an effect on the adopted child’s displacement?

Homelessness

Does the type of neighborhood or area affect how a homeless person is treated by society? Does the homeless person’s race affect how they are judged and treated by society?

Nursing Homes

How does being placed in a nursing home affect an elder’s relationship with their family members? What factors of a nursing home causes them to feel lonely?

 

 

 

 

13 Going on 30

In the film 13 Going on 30,  a 13 year old girl name Jenna Rink wakes up one day as a 30 year old because of a wish she made on her 13th birthday after the popular girls humiliated her. Since her life fast forwarded and she had no memorable experience of being an adult, her mindset is still of a 13 year old. She is displaced because physically she is an adult, but her mind and soul belonged to a 13 year old. Therefore, she panics when she sees a naked man in her apartment. She assimilates to the adult world as she learns that she works for a magazine company and figures out ways to benefit the company using her unique ideas from her 13 year old mind, such as the idea of a yearbook themed layout for the magazines. She also hangs out with 13 year olds because she feels as if she is one of them. She acts and dresses differently from her co-workers and the adults around her by wearing bright mismatched colors and styling her hair with styles from the past.

Displacement After High School

My two best friends and I spent a lot of time together during our last year of high school. We didn’t have a lot of classes together, but we still managed to stay close and spend time together almost everyday after school. I enjoyed spending time with them because there was always laughter and we never ran out of things to do and talk about. However, it all started to change when we started college. Since they both go to the same college, I was the one who was separated from them. In the beginning we still communicated in our group chat just like the way we always did. It made me feel better because I still felt like I belonged and that they haven’t forgotten about me. Due to the time differences in our schedules, I barely spent time with them because one of us is always busy with something. However, they spent a lot of time with each other since they had similar schedules and were in the same college with no one else that they knew. Even though we still continued communicating in our group chat, they often talked about stuff they could relate to and about the people they met in their classes. Although they didn’t mean to make me feel left out, I felt displaced because I couldn’t contribute to the conversation or relate to any of it. When we hung out during break, I still felt displaced because they often left me out of the conversation and talked about things that were happening in their college. They even had inside jokes that they would later explain to me. Even though I felt displaced, there are still moments where I felt like I belonged, especially when we bring up high school memories and caught up with each other’s lives.

Art-a-Thon Experience

The event that I attended was focused on how to read a sonnet. I had an interesting experience in this event because it taught me a lot. Before I went to the event, I had no idea what a sonnet was except that it had something to do with Shakespeare. I learned that each sonnet is the same size; it all has 14 lines that are the same length and 10 syllables that make up 140 in one sonnet. Sonnets are usually about love and romance. In Shakespeare’s sonnets, it is written to one person, usually a lady. The sonnets don’t give clear answers to who it is about because it is mainly consisted of riddles. I also learned that the word “sonnet” means little sound.

There is a way to read sonnets and it’s not the way you normally read a text. In order to read a sonnet, there are three steps; first, you have to listen to what it sounds like when you read. By sound, you have to focus on the syllables and which ones are stressed or unstressed. The sonnet rhymes in feminine rhymes and masculine rhymes. Feminine rhymes have two or more syllables, which is what Shakespeare uses most of the time. Masculine rhymes only have 1 syllable. The next thing you have to do when reading a sonnet is to think about what it means. The last thing you have to do is figure out how the sound affects the meaning of the sonnet.

We received a sonnet from Shakespeare and had some people read it out loud. It was frustrating for me because I didn’t understand what it was trying to say and it also sounded wrong in my head because there was no rhythm to it like a a poem. After we read it out loud, the professor played a recording of a man reading the sonnet and it sounded better to me because he knew how to emphasize on certain words. After that we broke down the sonnet into quatrains by looking at the words that rhymed. Overall, I enjoyed the event because it helped me learn how to read Shakespeare better.

Drinking Coffee Elsewhere

1. Why didn’t the narrator attend the Heidi’s mother’s funeral?

2. Why did the narrator feel displaced when she arrived at Yale? What factors made her feel that way?

3. What is the significance of Heidi’s mother’s death? How does it make Dina feel?

Junot Diaz’s “Fiesta, 1980”

In Junot Diaz’s “Fiesta, 1980,” Yunior knows that his father is having an affair with another woman and keeps it a secret from his mother. His brother Rafa also knew about the affair and he kept it from her, too. The reason why Yunior didn’t tell his mother is because he did not want her to be hurt and alone without his father. He knows that they would not be together anymore once the truth comes out. Although I understand the reason behind Yunior’s decision of keeping it from his mother, I do not agree with him. I think that the value of family does not mean to lie and protect one another. Instead, a family should be truthful to one another even if it ends up with people leaving or getting hurt. I know I can never keep a secret from my mother because I will feel guilty. When I was younger, my mom hated when my dad goes out to drink with his friends. One night he didn’t come home for dinner and she told me to call him to find out if he’s out drinking with his friends. When I called, he told me not to tell my mom where he was and that I should tell her he was at my uncle’s. I thought about lying to my mom to protect my dad, but I felt bad and guilty because it did not feel right. I thought it meant that my dad would probably take advantage and continue doing something that upsets my mom. In the end, I told her the truth even though I knew it would make her mad because it felt better than keeping it from her when I knew she trusted me. I think Yunior should’ve done the same because his mom loves him and stood up for him when his father abused him. She deserves respect and honesty back from him.