Lorde said “I am afraid– you can hear it in my voice– because the transformation of silence into language and action is an act of self-revelation and that always seems fraught with danger. But my daughter, when I told her of our topic and my difficulty with it, said, “tell them about how you’re never really a whole person if you remain silent, because there’s always that one little piece inside of you that wants to be spoken out, and if you keep ignoring it, it gets madder and madder and hotter and hotter, and if you don’t speak it out one day it will just up and punch you in the mouth.” (Lorde pg 42)He argue  that we should not be silent, if you don’t speak out, no one knows you thought, and you won’t be a whole person. Do not be afraid that you say the things wrong, because at least they know what your idea is. Do not be afraid to be hurt, because if you do not speak out, they will still hurt you, only to speak out and resist, you have the only chance to change you life.” Here is a good example to explain it, Jane, a main character from “Jane Eyre” by Charlotte Brontte. She was a poor girl who lost her parents when she was young and then moved to her uncle’s house. After her uncle died, her life changed dramatically, she was bullied by her aunt Mrs. Reed and her children every day and NEVER resist. Until one day, John Reed bully her again, she resist, and attack back, because she knew that if she do not want to continue to be bullied by them, only to resist,  otherwise she will had to live this horrible life until died, although after that, she was locked in the red house, but it was a fortune for her future, because she learned only to resist unfair treatment and dare to say “NO” to any injustice things, and that is the only way she can change her life, and finally she did it and got the life that she wanted.