When your at a family reunion, you sometimes wonder who are all these people. When was the last time I saw you or are we related? When I was at my aunt’s 50th birthday, I met up with cousins that I didnâÂÂt know and I found out we have a lot in common. Having a family bond is necessary because in this life, children are more separated than before from their relatives.
Statistics from childstats.gov shows that race plays an important role in family bonds. Whites carry the highest percentile in two-parenting than any other race. Whites two parenting in 2010 is 78.1, black is 38.7, and hispanic is 68.7.
According to childstats.gov, parenting for mothers is high in blacks. Black mothers carry 49.9 percent in single parenting. This is basically 50 percent in our society. Knowing that family bonds now in our society rely a lot on single parenting, what can we do? Children should have two parents instead of one. When you limit that for either a girl or boy, it allows these kids to take the same trend as their parents.
Family bonds should always play a strong role because in our society, teens have more divorced parents than 10 years ago, according to childstats.gov. If divorce rates were lower, teens wouldnâÂÂt have to suffer as much. Many of teens bonding comes from a common understanding of pain. You might find that some teens without any family connection have more of a reckless, and have a harsh life. Some use drugs and live on their own.
Having a family bond not only makes us a better family member, it gives that teen or adult that your helping a sense of friendship and someone to connect to. I know some of my friends that donâÂÂt even talk to their moms, call their pops dead beat, and struggle to live on their own. Making that difference to say hi and getting to know people in your family might just save someone life. It might even give you a sense of why we family in the first place.