A teachable moment for me I would say have to be when I learn how important having a voice is. You see when I was younger I always went with the flow. I didn’t really know what I wanted to do or had the ability to say the word no. This is due to me having the fear of classmates not wanting to hangout with me. I wanted to fit in. Which is why whatever my classmates did I went with their idea despite it not being what I want sometimes. I was scared to be alone. Next thing you know I was going from middle to highschool. I still struggle with having a voice. I know a lot of people would say it’s easy to reject something but you have to realize I lost my voice for a long time so it takes a while to get back up. Sometimes I also look at myself and ask why can’t you say no this isn’t something you wanted to look at her she could easily do it why can’t you. These events taught me that if I don’t have a voice this will happen where an imbalance relationship can occur.