It seems that the appreciation of the positive and the selective forgetfulness of the negative are inevitable actions of human nature. We aspire to the bright spots of humanity, so we praise a loving father, an affectionate husband, an excellent basketball player. We abhor the ugliness of humanity, so normally we would vehemently condemn all rapists. But when those two coincide in one person, as in the cause of Kobe Bryant, fans are rightly overwhelmed. In this case, it seems only natural to forget the stain of the past and embrace the subsequent successes. Just as people often choose to disregard the embarrassing, sinful, and depressing moments in their own lives, they also intend to forget their idol’s past. The truth is that facing the objective truth is not frightening; it is the collapse of faith that is frightening. As in this case, acknowledgment of the fact(sexual assault case) seems to be equivalent to the collapse of faith.
I think the last part of Davis’ article was well written. “A full portrait of life is jagged and messy. It’s incoherent.” she writes. Indeed, that full portrait must contain all elements of life; Light and darkness, life and death, love and hate. All are part of the picture. As Davis stated, ‘Disentangling that(the pieces) is a shared responsibility, that is ’something we owe to each other to get right.’