- How does going back in person affect my participation in CPP during the Fall 2023 semester?
- What should I do to participate?
- Where should I meet my partner?
- What if I can’t pronounce my partner’s name?
- What if my partner can’t understand me?
- Are we expected to focus on English mistakes and pronunciation?
- How should I behave to be culturally sensitive?
- What are some conversation topics we can talk about?
- To whom do I go if there is a problem?
- Where can I find the timesheet?
- Can I get volunteer hours for participating in the program?
1. How does going back in person affect my participation in CPP during the Fall 2023 semester? Baruch College now allows in-person events to happen on campus. To promote more conversations in person, CPP will only be allowing partners to meet 2 out of 6 times virtually using applications such as Zoom, FaceTime, Skype, Messenger, etc, as of Spring 2020 moving forward. Any needed accommodations should be emailed to CPP.
In addition, we will be launching new initiatives: online community engagements via a Discord server and WhatsApp group chat. Current partners may join through the invitation link provided to you in your application confirmation email. You may also find this link in our newsletter as well.
Back to top
2. What should I do to participate? Please fill out the online application form and submit it by the deadline. Within one week of the deadline, you will be contacted by a program administrator with the name, e-mail address, and phone number of your partner. Please contact your partner right away to set up the first meeting.
Back to top
3. Where should I meet my partner? We recommend that you choose a very specific meeting point to meet your partner for the first time. For example, a good meeting point for in-person meetings would be the Bernard Baruch bench inside the 25th Street entrance of the Vertical Campus building. After you have met, you can go to any comfortable place on or off campus.
Back to top
4. What if I can’t pronounce my partner’s name? Teach your partner how to say and spell your name and ask your partner to help you say and spell his/hers. Write it down and practice saying the name several times. Don’t be embarrassed to ask your partner to repeat as many times as it takes.
Back to top
5. What if my partner can’t understand me? Be patient and persistent. Use clarification strategies, such as the following if misunderstandings occur.
• Say it a different way.
• Give an example.
• Draw a picture.
• Write it down.
• Speak clearly and not too fast.
6. Are we expected to focus on English mistakes and pronunciation? Try to focus on corrections only if they interfere with understanding and clarity. Too many corrections hinder conversational flow. While the English language can be the topic of conversations sometimes, it shouldn’t be the only topic. Tip: You could set aside part of each conversation (e.g., 15 minutes) to focus on questions related to the English language.
Back to top
7. How should I behave to be culturally sensitive? The way you present yourself may shape your partner’s attitude. Be respectful at all times.
- Show your interest in your partner by sitting forward and giving your full attention to the conversation.
- Participate and share the time. Ask questions as well as give your point of view. If you tend to be a quiet person, push yourself to give your ideas and opinions. If you tend to be a talker, take responsibility to invite your partner into the conversation. Ask “What do you think?” “How about you?” “What’s . . . like in your culture?”
- Ask if it’s okay. If you’re not sure if a question is culturally appropriate, begin it by saying, “I hope it’s okay if I ask you …” A sincere desire to know is usually appreciated, regardless of the topic.
- Don’t carry on private conversations with other friends, answer your cell phone, lean back in your chair with your legs stretched out, look at your watch, or gaze off in the distance while you are meeting with your partner. Your partner will notice these behaviors and think you are bored and don’t really care.
8. What are some conversation topics we can talk about?
The best way to succeed as a Conversation Partner is to be interested in learning from your partner. Have a few general topic ideas in mind for each session. You may need a backup topic if one fizzles out. Here are some ideas to get you started.
- Talk about your home, the members of your family, your upbringing, etc.
- Compare and contrast birthday traditions, coming-of-age celebrations, marriage and wedding customs, funeral rites, holidays, etc.
- Inquire about special food, clothing, rituals, beliefs, superstitions, and so on associated with each occasion.
- Discuss and/or demonstrate cultural behaviors for greeting, visiting, tipping, dating, etc.
- Ask whether your partner is experiencing culture shock and how he/she is adapting to life at Baruch College.
- Tell each other which places (countries, cities, tourism spots) you have toured and visited.
- Compare and contrast common holiday observations (New Year, Valentine’s Day, etc.)
- Discuss other special days, such as national days, holidays, and religious celebrations.
- Discuss what food is served during a traditional/typical breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
- Discuss items in the news related to your countries and regions of origin.
- Discuss language and translation challenges, alphabets and writing (script or characters), pronunciation, vocabulary-building, etc.
- Talk about how various emotions are expressed and which of them are culturally and socially acceptable/permitted.
- Compare nonverbal communication (movements of the hands and body, the symbolism of clothing accessories, etc.).
- Talk about primary and secondary schooling, the ages when children begin their education, the length of the school day and ear, teaching methods and important lessons, and preparations for university.
- Discuss university life, the lecture system, typical course assignments, the workload in your degree program, or your favorite course.
- Discuss what people enjoy doing as a pastime when not working or studying.
- Instead of meeting just to talk, consider going to an event together (a movie, a play, a concert, a sports event) and talking about it afterward.
- Consider meeting at a restaurant that serves food from your culture. Talk about rituals, etiquette/manners, eating utensils, etc. associated with the food.
9. To whom do I go if there is a problem? If you simply cannot attend a prescheduled meeting, contact your conversation partner directly. If there are other issues, please contact one of the CPP team members.
Back to top
10. Where can I find the timesheet?
The timesheet is a personalized Google form created only for you and your partner. The timesheet link will be sent to you along with your pair-matching result. Please keep in mind that timesheet submissions are only accepted if both partners submit the timesheet within 48 hours after the meeting takes place. Late submissions of the timesheet will not be counted.
For more information, see Timesheet.
11. Can I get volunteer hours for participating in the program? No, this program is not volunteer-based and cannot be used for volunteer hours.
University of Iowa. (n.d.). Campus conversation partners. Retrieved from http://clas.uiowa.edu/files/esl/Tips%20for%20meeting%20with%20ESL%20students.pdf
Memorial University. (2012). Conversation partner handbook. Retrieved from https://www.mun.ca/esl/conversation