At first, It was almost impossible to begin to answer this assignment. Mainly because I’m still discovering who I am and what might be my role in this world. After wrapping my head around it, I came to the conclusion that a big part of who I am lies within my family and my upbringing. Frankly, that’s what sets us all apart from each other. Family dynamic is a huge contributor to one’s character. And, so, what I immediately thought of when I asked my self the question “Who am I,” was my family.
I was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York and spent most of my life between Brooklyn and Rhode Island. I am the first generation born in America from my parents Carmel and Mario, who immigrated from Haiti. My earliest memory is walking into my kindergarten classroom and bidding adieu to my mother as I kissed her on the cheek. I don’t consider any language my first because I began speaking English and French Creole simultaneously; and so did my other three siblings. I have two older sisters and a younger brother and we are all really close. Having such a full house really makes me appreciate the sense of family and support that we possess. With these 5 people, I share a space, language, culture, religion, and blood. Who am I if not a reflection of them? For me, my family is what sculpted me and what I’ve learned from them is what keeps me together.
If there is one thing that I’ve learned from my family is to embrace my individuality. Although me and my family share so much together, we each have our own temperament, identity. Thus, the identity I developed, although bridged from my mother’s fostering, is what people see today. I consider myself to be positive and respectful. And also, extremely appreciative of the life given to me, and the family I have to share it with.