Change

When I was 13 years old my parents got divorced. It was a hard time in my life because I wasn’t sure whose side to be on, and if I chose the wrong side I was scared one of my parents would hate me .So I quickly learned that its best if I just stay out of it. So while my parents did their thing and fought for years I just minded my own business, and over time the fighting dissolved and there divorce was settled. A couple years later my mom found a new guy who just happened to live in new york .He would later propose to my mom she said yes. But the one downside of there little plan was that my mom wanted to move the family being me my sis and my dog to new york to live with my new step dad. At first I apposed the idea, I did not like that I would be leaving all my friends and family behind and had to start fresh. But my mom sat me down and convinced me that it was best for our family.so about six months later we packed up and headed to New York. I got here in the middle of the summer so there was nobody here for 2 months the place was dead all the kids my age had left to camp. So to occupy my time I went to the gym and played a lot of ball. Finally that dreadful day came about, the first day of school. When I went through those doors I was shitting my pants every possible scenario that could play out that day was running through my head. I was convinced that it would be terrible an id hate my new school. But to my surprise I actually loved it and everything about it. It was great people were nice school was a joke and I could just do my own thing .Now when I look back at this turning point in my life it was definitely a positive .I think it was best for my family and it allowed me to grow my horizons, I met people and went places I never thought id ever get to see or meet. So when all is said and done change is good in my opinion, m I know people have a strong fear and are unable to adapt to change, all im saying is give it a chance because it can work out for the best.